Self-taught mother is busy cutting meat at the meat stall in the front row. She is absorbed in ballet. Forward somersault, word horse back somersault, bending down to fold your legs back to your face, etc. All kinds of difficult movements are handy. Busy cutting pork and dancing ballet gracefully. One vulgar and one elegant, in one go. This huge contrast has caused a heated discussion among netizens. "What's the name of the poor children's ballet? Can they become the phoenix of the branches? " Yes, you can.
Netizens who don't know the truth may not know that this video actually comes from the documentary "Little Boy". Filmmaker: Xiaoyun, a 9-year-old girl, became a self-taught girl with passion for ballet, and finally appeared on the CCTV stage as an inspirational story. Many people who have seen this documentary are moved by the girl's tenacity. But after reading it, I found that Xiaoyun's parents' care for their daughter was also very touching. These three characteristics are worth learning by many parents.
Good parents protect their children's hearts. Every child has his own unique talent. Parents will cultivate their children into an extraordinary person or a mediocre person. Many times, it depends on how parents protect their children's hearts. Xiaoyun's mother knows how to take care of her children's deep love.
At first, Xiaoyun accidentally saw a video of others dancing ballet on his mobile phone. The effect was immediately attracted and unconsciously followed the action in the video. I also gave each dance a name, and I practiced it vividly every day. Mom also quickly discovered Xiaoyun's talent for dancing, and she cut the meat herself every time.
Both daughters were dancing beside them, forgetting to concentrate and dancing very fast. Maybe someone else's mother, facing the villagers who stood in front of the pigsty and pointed at them, felt embarrassed and even ashamed, and asked her children to "go away, don't be ashamed here." But Xiaoyun's mother didn't. My daughter likes it. Like an adult. When the family is poor, she will take her children to watch videos online.
Children learn, she learns. In the video, how does the mother shout, how does she shout? I have no time to concentrate on practicing with my daughter. She cut the meat while calling the beat for her daughter. My father also supported me as much as possible. My daughter doesn't have a decent dancing environment, but she wants to build a training room but can't afford to hire anyone. So I moved the wood together and built a training room for my daughter.
And a good parent is not only an audience who applauds their children to the extreme, but also the best lighting engineer who shines for their children. They persistently guard the flame in children's hearts and help children perform their little dreams on the big stage of life.
Excellent parents bravely pursue their dreams with their children in their arms. Xiaoyun's mother is such a mother, struggling to bravely pursue her dreams with her children in her arms. Obviously, long-term blind practice is not the way. Try to find a professional teacher to teach your daughter. I took time to take my daughter into town and asked about a training class. After watching Xiaoyun's performance, every teacher said, "She is a little wasteful here. I suggest going to Kunming or Beijing to find a better teacher to teach." It is unrealistic to send it to Kunming. Xiaoyun is still young. His father is a truck driver and travels all the year round.
I also want to kill pigs and sell meat. There is no one to accompany me, and there is no such economic condition at home. But Xiaoyun's mother doesn't want to give up. She asked many people in the village and showed them the videos of her daughter dancing. Mother took Xiaoyun to Beijing not far away. At that time, when the two teachers met Xiaoyun, even though they had decades of experience in dance teaching, they were surprised and outspoken: Bole was not looking for a swift horse, but a swift horse.
Finally, I invited a teacher for my daughter, but my mother Li Xingqiao didn't stop there. The teacher is holding Xiaoyun leg press and practicing flexibility. As a result, she cried bitterly, and she advised not to give up. Xiaoyun is tired of practicing and wants to be lazy. It's better to be soft-hearted She chose to tell her daughter soberly: this is your only chance to get out of the mountain. Don't betray yourself and suffer like me. From Xiaoyun's mother, we can feel that parents' education for their children is like grafting. Be a parent's scion and cultivate it carefully; As an early rhizome, it thrives.
Good parents lead their children further, and fatherly love has a far-reaching influence on their sons. Using the body as a ladder, after a difficult lift, excellent parents need to be close to the pioneers with vision and courage. Xiaoyun's mother is such a mother with little culture but broad vision. Holding a pig-killing knife in his hand, while doing his best for life, he is also spelling out the possibility of realizing his dream for his daughter.
Finally, my daughter finally walked out of the village, out of Yanshan and out of Yunnan. As soon as I passed the customs, I arrived in the big city of Beijing. As soon as I came to power, I went to the stage of CCTV. Xiaoyun's talent, congenital deficiency and parents' guidance make up half of the acquired deficiency. Someone once asked, where there are conditions, there are capabilities. Where there are conditions, which is better than which? Xiaoyun's parents told us with practical actions that no matter how strong their abilities and conditions are, they must rely on their parents' guidance. The future of children is not only the mind and responsibility of parents, but also the vision and pattern of parents guiding life.
In the process of this change, her parents have been accompanying her. Whenever and wherever you need her to fly against the wind, please walk with her. I hope every parent can be like Xiaoyun's parents: let the child's heart do what he wants, and don't lose his will because of criticism; Let children's talents and ambitions not be lost because of poverty.
I also hope that every child can follow the love in his heart like Xiaoyun. Aim to approach, not far away, poor mountains and distant seas. May every parent help their children bravely pursue their dreams.