Now we will find that there will be some double-income childless people in our life, and among these double-income childless people, some people choose Dink's life because they feel that there is no way to educate their children. After all, this is a very important thing. Of course, in fact, educating children is indeed a homework that parents must practice. According to the truth, parents and children should be born close, but you will find that many children no longer have trust and dependence on their parents. So what's wrong with their parents' education? Details are as follows.

0 1. Parents always lie.

1 The reason may be that some parents always like to lie. This lie may be reflected in some big things or some small things. For example, in life, some children meet some toys and like them very much, and then ask their parents for them. If parents don't give it, children will cry. At this time, some parents tell their children that there will be better toys ahead, or they will buy you better toys tomorrow. At this time, parents will have other reasons to attract their children's attention. In this way, procrastination is actually deceiving children with one lie after another.

For parents, they may think that their children are still young, and these behaviors are nothing, but in fact, if such things happen a lot, they will create an impression on their children's psychology, and what parents say will never count. What parents say in the future is actually not dignified in the children's hearts, and they will no longer have any trust in their parents.

02. Parents are not around

The second reason may be that parents lack companionship with their children. In fact, we will meet such children in life. Some children have good family conditions, but their parents have not been with them since childhood, which often leads to problems in their education. Because children actually form their own subjective personality in childhood, they may do something wrong at this time. If his parents don't correct him in time, he will gradually form some wrong ideas, which may lead to personality problems.

In childhood, in fact, children are eager for their parents to accompany them. At that time, I looked at it eagerly, but every time it may be that parents delayed their time with their children because of their busy work. Perhaps some parents will think that earning money is another kind of love for their children, but for the children at that time, they will only feel that their parents don't love themselves so much, and they will lose some trust and dependence on their parents over time.

03. Parents don't love enough.

The third reason may be that parents don't give their children enough love. Because for people, only by confirming that they love themselves will they be unscrupulous, but if parents don't give their children this feeling, children will actually feel alienated from their parents.

I once had a friend who felt that her parents didn't give her enough love. Although she brought him up, she always ignored her feelings in many details. For example, he wanted to buy medicine and asked his mother to accompany him, but she never went. Or, on holidays, she is always prevented from going home to see her mother. In this way, all kinds of details make her feel that her parents are not even friends. Therefore, under such circumstances, the child's psychology will of course be separated from his parents.