1, mutual consideration: when having sex for the first time, both parties will feel shy, especially the woman, whose psychological state is complicated and her spirit is a little nervous. At this time, the gentleness of men is very important. It is necessary to gradually ease the tension of women so as not to "break up in discord".

2. Newlyweds should keep a relaxed and happy attitude, don't be influenced by daily trifles and small disputes, and bring bad emotions to bed, which will not only affect the mood of their honeymoon, but also leave a shadow for the future.

3. Don't have too high sexual expectations. When a person always pays attention to his sexual ability, there is bound to be a strong sense of expectation. Because it is the first time, the higher the expectation, the greater the disappointment. So everything should be natural, and the cultivation of feelings between two people is the most important. When feelings are strong, you can't help it, and you can naturally enjoy endless fun.

Experts remind: Newlyweds can take contraceptive measures if they don't want to give birth prematurely. It is best to use condoms and contraceptive ointment, which can not only ensure the contraceptive effect, but also increase the lubricity of vagina. Condoms have no side effects, are the most hygienic and used properly. Not only will it not affect the pleasure of sexual life, but it can also prevent some infectious diseases between husband and wife, which is safe and reliable for both husband and wife and future children. If there is no other discomfort, you can always use this method for contraception. 2-3 months after marriage, when the woman's vagina is slack, vaginal septum and contraceptive ointment can also be used. You can buy some sex education films to study and pay attention to hygiene.