1. You can't just obey.

Many parents come up to coax their children when they see them crying without thinking, promise all their demands, make peace, and want them to stop crying and calm down quickly. In fact, this method is not desirable. After children master this characteristic of their parents, they will increase their efforts next time. If there are any requirements that are not met, he will cry and solve them. Children who are used to this method will become unreasonable in the future. Parents should be vigilant, don't blindly agree to their demands, tell the truth, what can and can't be met, and let them know the discretion.

2. Ask the reason why you play.

Many parents are very tired when they come back from work. Lose your temper and throw things when you meet children. If you are angry, you won't fight. Pick up the belt and hit it. This method is not advisable. We should ask the child why he is crying, either because he wants to get the attention of his parents or because some reasonable demands are ignored. If parents ask the reason clearly, they will not be so angry. Make reasonable promises when you can meet, talk to children unreasonably, and don't listen.

Step 3: Cold treatment.

The child has been crying, saying nothing, can't coax, and can't tell the truth. If you meet such unreasonable children, you might as well let them do their own thing. When children find that their parents don't pay attention to their infidelity, they will feel unconscious and naturally stop crying. Go back and talk to your child about the reason why you lost your temper just now, and tell your child that you can talk to your parents about anything and requirements, and you can't let them meet their requirements in this way.

4. Can't meet its requirements immediately.

It is not good for children to force their parents to meet their demands by playing with their temper. Parents should take circuitous tactics, talk to their children about requirements and tell them what can satisfy them, but they have time and conditions, and sometimes they should talk about why they can satisfy them.

Divert attention

Agreeing to the child's request may be because he is busy with work or forgets other things. When the children come back, they feel that their parents are lying to them and don't talk about credit. Cry and make a scene. Parents can coax their children, give them other toys to play with and play with them. Or let the children watch an animated cartoon and talk about what is still playing in it. Or play a joke on the children, be humorous. If the child's attention is diverted, he will soon be amused by you.

6. Parents should agree.

Criticize and educate children, parents should agree, not oppose. Children will be even more disobedient when they see their parents disagree, don't know who to listen to, and feel that they have a backer.