Many people will say, "Don't be a virgin." "If communication is useful, why do you need the police?" Or, no matter how rational your previous speech is, you will eventually add a sentence: if it can't be solved, it is recommended to reflect it to the higher education department.
But if you do, or if you are a snitch, be cautious. If there is an impact, we should consider it from three aspects.
First, schools. In any case, no matter how fearless the other party is, schools and teachers are actually afraid of parents reporting. I remember that when Mr. Zhong reported to his parents for the first time in Little Shede, although he seemed poised at first, as if nothing had happened, he was still a little uneasy. What finally reassured him was the performance of other parents.
This is what many people have to worry about when considering applying to schools or teachers. Is to try not to fight alone. If you are weak, it is likely that even if you reach a higher level, you will be sent back to school to appease the school.
Since the school is going to solve it, how can it hit itself in the face? Others, the more they threaten you, the more afraid they are of being reported. This is their last psychological defense, and it depends on who can control who. Obviously, if the report is successful, it will not be good for the school and teachers.
Second, the Education Bureau. The same is true of the people in the Education Bureau. The last thing they want to face is such a report. One is more troublesome and difficult, and the other is that it will affect their political achievements. If it is handled well, it will be punished if it is not handled well.
So in the face of reporting, they only have one trick: appeasement+mud. Be a peacemaker, first stabilize your parents, then pick up the plane to contact the school and kick the ball back.
Of course, there are risks. If the school does not handle it properly, parents may not go to the Education Bureau again, because in the eyes of parents, such handling is "officials protecting each other" and has no effect. After that, there are only two results, either parents submit to humiliation and let it go, or roll with the punches and lose both sides.
Third, parents. It is also the story of Xiao Sheli. There is a good saying, but whenever the school seizes the opportunity to lower its profile, no parent is willing to do everything. After all, children are still in charge of the school. Once it is not handled properly, their children can't stay in this school or even this area.
As parents, there are only two kinds of people who report, one is forced to be anxious, and the other is that their demands are not met. (Of course, not all demands are reasonable. ) at this time, how to solve it? Actually, it all depends on the school. You can't say that there is no contradiction between home and school at school, and it is not terrible to have contradictions. I'm afraid you won't look them in the eye and solve them actively. If the store bullies customers, or blindly protects or even muddles along, it is definitely a matter of time before parents report it.
Is there such a thing around you? How was it finally solved, and what inspiration did it give you? Please leave a comment. The picture came from the network and has been deleted.