Parents know the law and harm others, which is influenced by traditional education methods and the living space of left-behind children. Some parents have some misunderstandings in educating their children, such as attaching importance to material giving, ignoring spiritual giving, ignoring moral education, attaching importance to physical health, ignoring psychological counseling, attaching importance to the cultivation of commonness, and ignoring the development of personality, especially in families with intergenerational guardianship. They hold their children in their hands and do everything according to their own wishes. This can be said to be an overindulgence or lack of care for children, or even a phenomenon of doting on children.

Such love will seriously affect the physical and mental health of left-behind children, and many parents don't understand or pay enough attention to it. Seldom take the initiative to do blood lead test for children. As long as children see the decline in academic performance, they will scold or beat. We should first think about our responsibilities and actions. If we want our children to make progress, we should make progress first. Parents should be good at communicating with their children. According to related reports, parents have difficulty communicating with their children. Children's psychology has its particularity, so don't use adult psychology to demand and measure children.

Cultivate children's sense of responsibility, creativity and adaptability, communication skills and adaptability. Family education is the foundation of school education and social education. It is extremely important for children to study, work and live all their lives. Children are the future of society. To love children scientifically can not only satisfy parents' desire for Jackie Chan, but also deliver outstanding talents to the society. The parents of every left-behind child should seriously think about it. Communication between parents and children is very important. Words and deeds are more important than words and deeds.

Parents should first pay attention to their own cultivation and establish their own prestige. A parent who doesn't like learning but only cares about eating, drinking and having fun, an ignorant parent, a parent with bad conduct, vulgar and selfish behavior and no respect for the elderly can't raise a good child. It should be noted that children in parenting education are very concerned about whether their parents are committed to their growth. Some parents may not communicate with their children often. Most parents neglect parenting education because they are busy. Parenting education of parents should precede children's physiology and psychology.