Many children are tired of studying and don't want to study when they grow up, but many parents are worried. Many parents will use extreme means to make students compromise. However, although children are still in school, they are in a state of muddling along, which is basically the same as not going to school. Parents don't know what to do, but they have no choice. In fact, if children have such a situation, you can ask them three questions, and most children will get lost.

1. Do you have contacts if you don't study?

Networking is the foundation of success. If you don't have connections, how can you work in society? Without reading, anyone you come into contact with for reading is completely different, which is difficult to cultivate. Different levels have different circles, and schools are the best places to get contacts. Who doesn't pay attention to learning with good connections? Learning is the most basic requirement. If you can't learn well, how can you keep up with development?

2. What are the advantages of not studying to cope with the competition?

Nowadays, the society has strict requirements for talents, and the threshold of academic qualifications is the minimum requirement. However, education can only be owned by yourself. With the most basic education, you have the opportunity to compete with others. Without education, we will lose many opportunities and choices to others. At this time, competition is cruel to those who don't study, and will directly shut you out. Many people will say that they will develop well without studying. However, what are the chances of success if you don't study? Can't take an example, the pattern of non-readers will be very small.

3. Is it wise not to study?

Reading is to increase knowledge. Only when a person is rich in knowledge can his wisdom be great and his thoughts and ideas be different from others. If you don't study at this time, your own thoughts will have certain limitations, which is very unfavorable to your own development. If a person wants to be a successful person, his thoughts must keep pace.

Therefore, when children are tired of learning, don't use some extreme means, which often doesn't work. Changing children's minds is the most practical.