First, maintain a smooth parent-child relationship and stimulate children's determination to struggle.
Parents need to calm down first, communicate with their children calmly, and clearly understand their children's current thoughts, thoughts and learning details, which need to be learned from their children. In this process, don't worry, and don't express your disappointment with your child. Let the children speak all their feelings and thoughts.
Understand children's ideas, ideas, learning goals, learning plans, specific implementation, etc. Parents are better at motivating their children. Parents need to help their children make a study plan that suits their own characteristics and study according to their own characteristics and actual situation. Don't care what books others are reading, what questions they are doing, what they have learned, where their grades are tested, and so on. Keep yourself, grasp yourself, and follow your goals.
Second, maintain a harmonious family atmosphere and release the pressure on children.
Parents should not always talk about studying hard and how hard they work for their children. Repetitioners are inherently more stressed than freshmen. If parents talk too much about learning, on the one hand, it will increase children's learning pressure and ideological burden; On the other hand, they will have mental stress such as anxiety, irritability, panic and helplessness because their children can't release pressure. Parents communicate with their children like friends, understand their situation and psychological pressure, do a good job of emotional counseling, spend more time with their children at the same time, relieve their psychological pressure, and let their children go into battle lightly and confidently invest in review.
Parents should change the concept of family education and make the family a place where children can cultivate their lives and gain happiness, joy, joy and love. Therefore, we must create a harmonious atmosphere in the family and let the children solve or eliminate all the pressure in the family. It is completely understandable that parents and children have different views and ideas on some issues during the repetition. It doesn't matter, because everyone's experience, situation and perspective are different. The key is that everyone should be good at exchanging opinions and finding effective ways to solve problems.
Third, pay attention to children's growth, but don't pay too much attention to their studies and achievements.
Parents should not only pay attention to their children's achievements, but also pay attention to their growth, especially their psychological growth. Only by doing their studies well can their children grow up healthily and happily, which is the correct direction for their children. Parents should not ask their children too much about their study or review. Too much supervision actually increases the psychological burden on children, and also increases their anxiety and irritability. When children talk to their parents about their difficulties or pressures, parents should listen more and talk less. Children are actually venting their emotions. In fact, children themselves know how to solve this pressure. At this time, what children need is the understanding, attention and support of their parents.
Fourth, teach children to face difficulties and overcome setbacks.
At an appropriate time, parents need to tell their children more about how they face difficulties and setbacks in life and how they overcome and surpass them. If we want to survive, survive and develop, we will inevitably face countless hardships and setbacks. Life is made up of countless difficulties and setbacks. If we want to live happily in this world, we must learn the psychology and behavior of "never admitting defeat" and "never giving up until the end" when facing all kinds of difficulties and hardships. Because high school students are still young, they have little or no experience of trauma and frustration. At this time, parents are mirrors and role models.
If you choose to repeat, your child will bear a lot of psychological pressure, and the parents who accompany your child to repeat are also under great pressure. In order to achieve the goal of repeat reading, parents and children should understand each other, work together, tide over the difficulties together and realize their ideals smoothly.