Growing up, my dad's control over me was more indestructible than controlling the steering wheel while driving. He learned a mathematical formula to memorize in primary school. He saw it and told me to recite it at noon. I am stubborn, so I have no turning back. I go to class at two o'clock. My dad told me to stay up until two o'clock before letting me go, and he didn't ask for leave. This is a fact. On another occasion, winter vacation homework asked him to draw a rabbit with his imagination. Yes, when he checked my homework, he found that I drew a rabbit and erased it directly. He said you wouldn't let me spend it on my homework. Don't you know? I rebelled in primary school, so I didn't study. I slip away every time I do my homework, not because I don't want to. Every time I write, I look like an invigilator. Every day after school, I will empty all the books in my schoolbag and look through the pictures one by one. Don't hang any gadgets on your schoolbag. If you see them, break them and throw them away.

On the summer vacation of the first day of school, our headmaster said to go out to play while you were particularly busy with your studies. I've never traveled before, but I'm particularly longing for it. With about a week left, I told my dad, can I go out to play in the summer vacation? He said I signed up for a summer camp in Beijing. I am very happy. I thought I would learn to cook and take care of myself when I got home. I am not afraid of your ridicule. I really can't take care of myself on the first day of school. On the day I came home during the summer vacation, I asked him when I said I would go. He said, you can't even cook, and you're still there waiting to starve yourself. ?

Finally, he asked me why I didn't talk recently, but the other party still didn't answer. My dad hasn't asked for references since. After that, even if he wanted to ask about my appointment, he would ask and rush me. I still find it ridiculous. I used to have a dog. The college entrance examination is coming soon. It's really my fault to endorse with my dog. My dad saw it and thought I was teasing the dog, not reading a book. He grabbed the dog by the neck and threw it against the wall. The dog limped for a week, and I didn't dare to touch the dog until the college entrance examination was over. Later, he said that he had taken the dog to buy food, and he came back and said that the dog was lost. I don't know if I gave it away!

You can communicate with your child in a similar way, so that he can have an independent personality consciousness and think that he can have his own ideas and be a respected individual, rather than all the property of someone. The key point is to let children feel love, which comes from intimate expression and emotional resonance. Without intimate companionship, empathy and understanding, how can children feel love?

Being a parent is an art. Although we can't be beautiful parents, we can think from the perspective of children. I hope that when children grow up, they will be willing to make friends with us and share with us what TA likes to do recently. This is the greatest success of parents!