How to remember other people's names right away? Many people have had this experience. The person just introduced forgot his name in the blink of an eye, and he was embarrassed to ask again when he met you next time. On the contrary, how would you feel if someone greeted you with your name when they saw you for the second time? You will be very happy and feel that people attach great importance to you, and you will naturally have a good impression on him. So remembering other people's names is not only a sign of good memory, but also an important social method, which can enhance your personal charm. Many people may have realized the overall benefits of remembering names, but they always feel that they can't remember them. Otherwise, they will think that this person is familiar but can't name him, or can't name him but can't match the number with others (there are many cases, especially when exchanging business cards with many people, they often look at the business cards but don't know who is who). How to solve this problem? In addition to using imagination to connect a person's name with his occupation, facial features and other details, we should also start from the following aspects to cultivate the customary formula for remembering names and looks. 1, psychological set. Before meeting a stranger, you should have full confidence and believe that you can remember the name and appearance of the other person completely. If you are not confident and always complain about your poor memory and can't remember names, then you have no enthusiasm, and the result is that you really can't remember them. So you should strengthen your confidence, calm down and relax, and tell yourself that this is easy to do. 2. Observe. When meeting, you must look directly at each other, don't look around, and concentrate on observing each other's facial features and body language. Later, I will provide you with a series of classified observation methods about the five senses, including the classification basis of various features from the top of the head to the chin. Many people are careless and do not observe each other carefully, which is also a very important reason why he can't remember other people's faces. The more skilled your observation skills are, the more clearly you can see the differences in people's looks, and the more helpful it is to remember. 3. Listen. You should consciously listen to people's names as attentively as possible. This is the key to meeting for the first time. If you want to remember people's names, you can't decide beforehand that you can't remember them. Many people lack confidence in this respect, so they don't pay attention to the pronunciation and spelling of their names at all, and naturally they really can't remember them. 4. The request is repeated. Even if you have heard the name clearly, you'd better say politely, "I'm sorry, could you repeat it?" Repetition is an important means of memory. Every time you repeat what you want to learn, the possibility of remembering it will increase. 5. Verify pronunciation. After listening to the other person's name, you can repeat the other person's name directly and ask if his pronunciation is correct. Even if you can't read correctly, the other party is willing to tell you the correct pronunciation patiently. Because he thinks you value him very much, and you are trying to remember his name. Your request not only increases your intimacy, but also repeatedly remembers the name, further increasing the possibility of your remembering the name. 6. Ask for spelling. If you are in doubt about the spelling of someone's name, you can ask them to spell it politely or jokingly, which will improve your memory. 7. the hobby of seeking sources. You can explain to each other that you have a new hobby, that is, you like to know the source and background of surnames. You should politely ask the other person if he knows the origin of his surname, even a little, and don't be too enthusiastic. You may be surprised to find that about 50% people not only know the origin of their surnames, but also are particularly interested in this topic. In this way, you not only increase your intimacy, but also get the opportunity to repeat your memory many times. 8. Repetition in conversation. The way to further implement the principles of care, courtesy and repetition is to mention as many names as possible when talking to strangers. This repetition can help you remember your name more firmly and make the other person feel good about you. 9. Inner repetition. During the short pause in the conversation, pay attention to the speaker and listener and repeat their names in your mind. 10, review a little during the break. During the rest time after the conversation, please take some time to recall the meeting with everyone just now and repeat their names, spelling, the origin of surnames and interesting things that happened, so as to build information around each name for future association. 1 1. Repeat when breaking up. When you say goodbye to a person, you'd better mention his name, because the whole story is the easiest to remember. 12, review. Psychological review: after breaking up with new people, try to flash their names and faces in your mind. Photo review: If there is a photo of the other party or a group photo with the other party, you can refer to the memories. Memo: in the form of a document, register the person, time, place, date, content and characteristics you met. 13, Lenovo. The association can be completed during the meeting or based on some special events and characteristics after the meeting. It mainly associates names with facial features, special events, topics and body language. Everyone's impression should be clear and unique, different from other people's characteristics. How to use association to remember names and looks, we will learn systematically in 18-hour super memory method. In fact, if you can follow the requirements of step 12 above, you can remember the other person's name even without association, and it will last longer with association. Let's take a look at the classification and observation of human five senses: first, the head. When you face a person head-on, a person's head can be divided into three categories: big, medium and small. Each class can be subdivided into 1 and square type; 2. Rectangular shape; 3, round; 4, oval; 5. The top of the head is triangular; 6. A triangle with a pointed chin; 7. wide type; 8, narrow type; 9. The bones are thick and big; 10, slender bone. If you look at a person's head from the side, you will find that there are many types of heads seen from this perspective, including: 1, square; 2. Rectangular shape; 3, oval; 4, wide type; 5, narrow type; 6, round; 7. flat face; 8. Flat top type; 9. The back is flat; 10, back round spoon type; 1 1, a triangle with sloping forehead and protruding chin; 12, triangle with back cut chin and raised forehead. Second, hair. There are many styles of hair, but they all have the following basic characteristics: 1, thick; 2. Sparse; 3. Curl; 4. straight; 5. split up; 6, back; 7, flat head; 8. baldness; 9. Separate from the middle; 10, long hair; 1 1, short hair; 12, special color. Third, the forehead. People's foreheads can generally be divided into the following categories: 1, high; 2. width; 3. Narrowness; 4. Stenosis between temples; 5, flat (no wrinkles); 6. There are horizontal wrinkles; 7. There are vertical wrinkles. Fourth, eyebrows. 1, thickness; 2. Light; 3. dragons; 4 short; 5, the two eyebrows are connected; 6. Separate eyebrows; 7. Straight; 8, eight-shaped; 9, double eyebrows pick up; 10, thin at both ends. Fifth, eyelashes. 1, thickness; 2, thin; 3. dragons; 4. short; 5. Curved; 6. Straight man. Sixth, eyes. 1, large; 2, small; 3. Protrude (drum); 4. deep; 5. Close your eyes; 6. Take your eyes away; 7. tilt upward; 8. downhill; 9. Different colors; 10, eyes of different sizes; 1 1, with more white eyes and less black eyes; 12, with less white eyes and more black and white eyes; Seven, the nose. From the front: 1, large; 2, small; 3, slender; 4, wider; 5. Center. Viewed from the side: 1, straight; 2, flat; 3. sharp; 4, without tipping; 5, lion nose; 6, eagle hook nose; 7. Nose depression is divided into: 1, straight; 2. Curved; 3. Open to the outside world; 4. Tilt upward; 5. Macropore; 6. Small holes; 7, long hair eight, cheekbones. When looking at people from the front, cheekbones are often the main features of the face, usually: cheekbones are high, prominent and flat. Nine, ears. People seldom pay attention to the characteristics of ears when observing the appearance of others. In fact, ears may be more distinctive than other facial parts. Ears can be divided into the following categories: 1, large; 2, small; 3. distortion; 4. average; 5, round; 6. oval; 7. Triangle; 8, close to the scalp; 9. tilt; 10, the earlobe is large; 1 1, no earlobe. Ten, lips. 1, the upper lip is long; 2. The upper lip is short; 3. small lips; 4. thick lips; 5. dragons; 6. thin; 7. Turn out; 8. turn inward; 9. Bow shape; 10, sexy; 1 1, ruddy; 12, pale; 13, other eleven, chin. From the front: 1, long; 2. short; 3. Sharp; 4. square; 5, round; 6, double chin; Viewed from the side, there are: upturned, straight and folded back. 12. Skin. 1, white; 2. Dark; 3. rough; 4. Smooth; 5, oily; 6, dry; 7. yellow; 8, pale, etc. Others include the characteristics of hands, limbs, teeth, voice and intonation. Everyone is different. Everyone should observe and compare more in life. To be a careful person, good observation is also helpful for memory. Li Chuang Consulting Mo Song Lin shares with you! Remember other people's names and expand your contacts! ! Special thanks to Mr. Zhang Ruijuan from Funao Education! !