First, let children learn to respect others.
As parents in China, we generally educate our children to listen to their parents. Only in this way can we be good children and get rewards. But now I've changed my mind. I think it is true that the child is underage, but he is also an independent and thoughtful person who needs respect and understanding. So now, whenever he has anything, I will ask his opinion. Because he is too young, I will ask him selectively.
Second, treat children calmly.
In the past, we asked our child to do something. If he refused or ignored it, we would yell at him impatiently or threaten him, so that he would do the same to us and could not solve the fundamental problem at all. Now, if this happens, we will calmly ask him why and try to persuade him to act according to our wishes. In this way, the child will discuss with you calmly and will not make trouble without reason.
Third, praise children to be specific and encourage persistence.
Children nowadays like to listen to praise. When you praise something they don't want to do, such as: you are great, good and smart, they will be happy to do it. After doing it well, they don't forget to talk in front of you, which makes everything his best consciousness, and he has no habit of learning from others' strengths with an open mind. Now if I praise children, I will analyze what I have done well in this matter and put forward higher requirements.