Fu Lei believes that when educating children, they are required not to go with the flow in their lives, but to have their own ideas and suggestions, especially to cultivate independent thinking and personality in their studies and careers. Parents should give their children more choices. In this way, when children face more choices in the future, they will not lose more opportunities because of lack of independence.

Furthermore, Fu Lei said in "Fu Lei's Letter": "The most important thing is to give full play to a person first, whether studying or engaging in art.. Before getting married, learn to be a man; Otherwise, no matter how smart the family is, it will not make much contribution to mankind. "

In Fu Lei's educational philosophy, the cultivation of people's moral quality is more important than the cultivation of technology and knowledge. He believes that a person should have both ability and political integrity and put morality first. For artists, the most fundamental thing of excellent moral quality is that only with noble moral quality can they create noble works of art.

Note: The Book of Fu Jialei emphasizes: Tell children to remember to be happy anyway; Let children believe in "truth, goodness and beauty".

Children should be warned that despite the ruthlessness of life, they should strive to improve themselves and give people less pain and more happiness. Because a sound personality can often deal with problems more actively.

Of course, this requires our parents to help their children get in touch with some high-quality books, courses and positive energy by increasing their horizons and knowledge, release bad emotions in time and help them build a strong heart.

Because art originates from reality and is higher than reality, the core idea of "truth, goodness and beauty" will not change. Let children have a sensitive heart and be willing to perceive the truth, goodness and beauty of the world, instead of letting them see those ugliness and unbearable too early, try their best to build a sense of security for children and don't let them be pessimistic from an early age. In other words, we should believe in love, convey love, believe in truth, goodness and beauty, and let children see a colorful and happy world.