As a mother, let the children feel that the world is worth it.

One of the most important things a mother should do is to make her children feel that the world is worth it. This kind of feeling is the child's inner feeling, and it is the child's own experience, not the truth told by others! There are at least three aspects that can be revealed by mothers to make children feel that the world is worth it;

First of all, the relationship between mother and others is warm. If the mother often quarrels with others, and the relationship with others is like a chicken flying a dog jumping, then the child feels not the warm world, but the tension and opposition between people, and even the fear of interpersonal relationships;

Secondly, the world in my mother's eyes is beautiful, and the people and things my mother said are beautiful and good. What is the world like? It doesn't matter to children. What matters is what he can feel from his mother. Her words and deeds, her physical and mental state and her attitude towards people and things will have a far-reaching impact on children's understanding of the world. Only beauty can awaken beauty, and only beauty and goodness can ignite beauty and goodness.

Then the third is that the mother's way of dealing with contradictions is gentle and decent, and contradictions in life are inevitable. What about the way mom handles conflicts? Is to set an example, gentle and decent treatment, will let children feel, mother's inner strength, will let children feel mother's wisdom, will also let children feel, even in the face of difficulties and conflicts, there is still hope in life, don't give children an endorsement that is not worthy of this world, but give them an example that is worthy of this world. Mother is the world of children, giving children the first confidence in the world and letting them feel the warmth of the world.