First, I firmly believe that as long as children master some professional skills or can do something, they should always insist on doing it themselves. If the child can walk by himself, then parents should stop hugging him. If the child can eat by himself (no matter how bad and dirty the food is), parents don't need to feed him any more. It is very likely that this short time will cause a lot of inconvenience, such as constantly sorting out his dirty clothes, pants, dining table and wooden floor, but it is better than his five or six years old, and his parents must be fed before he can eat much better. At this time, the most important thing parents should say to their children is: I am sure you can guarantee it yourself! (If the child is not big, you must squat down and tell him when you see his eyes), bravely say that you will not give meaningless assistance to the child's development. The more things children do themselves, the more satisfied they are, and the stronger their self-confidence will be. Self-confidence and satisfaction will make children bloom from an early age.

Second, let the children do some housework. Once they learn to walk, they can do housework. If you teach your child to help with some meaningful housework when he is young, he will regard housework as a natural part of his life. It is not a smart personal behavior to let children concentrate on their studies, training and homework, and not let them touch housework. Xiaoke suggested that smart parents can allocate a fixed day every week as a "housework day" for the whole family to work together.

Third, give children the right to choose. The more choices children make when they are young, the more assertive they will be when they grow up, and the stronger the level of making choices in the future. If you want to mold your child into a successful person, the core point is that if you let your child learn to choose his age from an early age, he is likely to make bad choices, but you should let him know how to develop through mistakes. And let him know that all choices have a relative influence behind them, so that children can learn to bear the adverse effects of their own choices from an early age. This is also the initial way of leadership training. Children should have the opportunity to make independent decisions from an early age, which is particularly helpful for generating independent logical thinking and self-confidence.

Fourth, to shape the established rules for children, there must be rules at home, that is, organizational discipline. However, organizational discipline is not to show your authority to children, but to help children develop self-discipline, have objective control over their means, and let them thrive and develop.

1. Limit the time for children to watch TV dramas and play mobile phones. Watching TV plays will give children a fixed way of typing, which is the acceptance of passive skills and is not conducive to shaping their imagination and creativity.

Pay special attention to children's manners and manners. A child with average academic performance, but polite and obedient, and strong ability in daily life and work will have a greater development trend than a child with excellent academic performance, but disobedient and uneducated. Therefore, parents should urge their children to cultivate good personality traits and set an example.

3. Strictly control children's consumption of discarded food at midnight snack. Letting children eat fried food doesn't mean you love it! Many children actually don't like the taste of simple meals. It's like going to KFC's Children's Paradise and getting the toys presented in the children's package. So, please take your children to a real children's playground.

Don't care too much about your children. If you expect your child to grow up to be a problem solver, a problem thinker and an all-round development person, please don't pay too much attention to him. Children who are immersed in happiness and love every minute may find it difficult to come up with solutions to their difficulties. You care too much about children, and children will not care about you easily. Children who care too much will get the result that it is their parents' duty to obey and accept orders.

Sixth, change everything after reading the article! Encourage children to read more and read good books. All successful people are people who like reading articles. Help children develop the habit of "abandoning all reading"; Read for your child for at least 30 minutes every day since he is 6 weeks old. It will be a wonderful time to read to the children next to you. Reading to children can bring your hearts closer and last a lifetime; Enrich your home with excellent books. A child will soon lose interest in new toys, but he will lose interest in a book he likes. He will read articles over and over again year after year!