What are the advantages of children educated by families whose parents lead by example? Xinxin is a lovely little girl. My mother attached great importance to his education since childhood. The story of Cheng Xian is told every day. Self-confidence taught him to respect adults and focus on etiquette. In the past, excited mothers could do housework such as washing clothes and cleaning the house. When they were excited, they could put away their toys and be polite to adults. But recently, the excited mother is under great pressure at work, so she can only lose her temper when she goes home. Occasionally I get angry with my excited grandparents, and I don't know it. Grandma, grandpa thinks mom is angry and mom doesn't like them anymore. So Shen Xin decided to ignore grandpa. Whenever the old man asks, God doesn't say a word.

Only when parents set an example can children become role models.

Young parents, what have you learned from the above example? Children's views on right and wrong are different from those of adults. Their early judgment is based on their parents' behavior, and they think that their parents' words and deeds are right and should be studied. For example, Shen Xin can regulate her behavior from her mother's words and deeds, but she can also change with her attitude.

Makarenko, a famous educator, warned parents that your own behavior is of decisive significance to education. Only when you talk to children and order them to do things, educate them. Every minute of your life, even when you are not at home, how to dress up, how to talk to others, how to express happiness and unhappiness, and every change in your attitude and expression will affect them invisibly. But you didn't notice. If you are rude or drunk at home, you have done great harm to your children. You have ruined your children's education, and your bad behavior will bring the most unfortunate consequences.

The power of example is infinite. This is especially important for children. Family is the most basic living and educational unit for children, and parents are the teachers of this educational unit, and their words and deeds will become imitators of children. Many examples prove that children's early behavior habits are learned from their parents.

It is an indisputable fact that parents are children's first teachers. Parents, as the closest people to their children, can have a great influence on their personality, psychology, behavior habits, ways of doing things and ways of thinking. Even the child's walking posture, voice, taste of food, and the time when the child has this problem will be affected, so it is necessary to correct it with the child, otherwise it is necessary to use the correct method to guide the correction. From the earliest, longest and longest contact with children, parents are also the most direct and concrete role models for children to learn, and their words and deeds can influence children with sweet words. Anything parents do in front of their children is no small matter. Children should be educated to have noble social morality. First of all, parents should strive to be such people, and parents should set an example. Only in this way can we prevent children from being disobedient more effectively.

In family education, parents often tell their children to do this, not to do that, and not to regulate their words and deeds, but this empty preaching function is often minimal. Children still don't listen to their parents, don't listen to their parents, and do what their parents have a headache. In fact, children's quality is formed under the influence of infection and edification. Parents always stand in front of their children and look in the mirror. Children often unconsciously modify their words and deeds in front of the mirror. Parents' words and deeds should set an example for their children, let them learn from their parents' advantages and eliminate their own shortcomings.

Parents are the providers of children's standard words and deeds, and parents' performance often becomes children's reference. Parents should follow their children's words and deeds, and their words and deeds are different, which is worse than the effect of children letting themselves go. The ancients said: teach others and teach yourself. In other words, parents should have the qualities and good habits they want to form in their children, and parents should make strong hints and appeals with specific images.

In addition, once parents promise their children, they must honor them. If things are difficult, don't say yes easily. It is difficult to catch up with the traditional virtues of the Chinese nation by agreeing on 1000 yuan. As the ancients said, a gentleman raises a horse, while a villain raises a horse. In the family, parents must be eloquent and loyal to their children.

Everyone knows the story of witnesses killing pigs in ancient China. Ceng Zi's wife wants to go to the street, and his children are crying in the street. His mother tricked him into letting you go back. I went back to the street, killed the pig and let you eat it. This sentence was heard by the giver. When my wife came back from the street, she saw the donor sharpening his knife and preparing to kill the pig. His wife stopped him in a hurry. What happened? Do you really want to kill pigs for children? I mean, cheating on children, how can donors cheat on children? If you lie to a child, you are teaching him to lie. It is not advisable to educate children in this way. The witness finally killed the pig.

This story tells us that promising money is not only a respect for certain behaviors, but more importantly, it is to cultivate children's credit awareness of keeping promises. If parents don't talk often and don't talk, the trust in children's hearts will decline, and children's respect and love for their parents will also decrease with the increase of distrust. In addition, as parents, if they don't talk often, children will unconsciously imitate and be irresponsible for what they say, which will become a bad habit over time. Good parents study. There are no parents who are naturally successful, and there are no parents who don't need to learn. Everyone should learn relevant knowledge before becoming a parent. Usually, we should start from our own manners and set a good imitation object for our children. Parents are teachers for their children's life. Wise parents guide disobedient children to take positive measures and set a good example for them. Parents are the best teachers for children, and good parents realize the importance of family.