The knowledge about negative education cannot be changed. Try to help children solve their growing troubles and don't "encourage their education". In fact, children just want their parents to accompany them. After reading the knowledge about negative education, learn to enlighten the little angels at home!
Negative educational knowledge 1 negative education is relative to positive education. It means that in family education, parents consciously use abnormal phenomena in real life to educate their children. Because negative education has the characteristics of novelty and great influence, it sometimes receives better results than positive education.
However, this kind of negative education is rare in our current family education. Many of our parents try their best not to expose their children to negative phenomena. They believe that "those who are close to Mexico are black" and try their best to provide children with a good living and learning environment, and strive to keep them away from difficulties, pains and all kinds of misfortunes, so as to achieve the goal of healthy growth of children. However, this practice is often unsatisfactory. Because real life is complicated, although parents can try their best to create a better local environment for their children, it is inevitable that their children will eventually go to society, get in touch with various environments, people and things, and be affected by negative phenomena from all sides.
If a child only receives positive education without negative education, it will be difficult for him to adapt to the ever-changing social environment. Therefore, in family education, negative education is an indispensable part.
The importance of negative education lies in:
(1) Negative education is conducive to enhancing children's psychological endurance. Because negative education reveals the other side of social life, let children see the ugliness and darkness in reality; People's kindness is often not rewarded; Beautiful things and valuable things are often overlooked; Failure and frustration are also the proper meanings in the topic of life. In this way, children's psychological endurance will be greatly enhanced after receiving negative education.
(2) Negative education will inspire children to overcome negative phenomena. Things in the world are not always satisfactory, but full of twists and turns and confusion. Therefore, when children feel sorry, sympathetic or resentful, they will also inspire a kind of power to overcome negative phenomena.
(3) Negative education can strengthen children's will. If a child can adapt to negative education, it is extremely beneficial to cultivate his strong will. Because children's will is tempered in the process of struggling with difficulties, setbacks, failures, etc.
However, although negative education has the above functions, it must be used with caution. Because using too much will make children lose confidence and courage.
Knowledge of negative education 2 Parents will use negative language to their children in the process of educating them, because they have a negative view of their children unconsciously.
Parents should turn these negative words into positive words of encouragement. "Since God has given talents, let them be employed!" Every child has an amazing mind.
The initial function of the mind is to realize what you think and develop your talents. However, this is the role of the deep heart (the subconscious heart). If the deep heart doesn't work, it can't be used.
Although children are endowed with great hearts, they cannot use their hearts because of their parents' negative language and negative thoughts.
Parents' positive thoughts can change their children. Human beings are creatures living in the spiritual world, and the mind will have an impact on the body. For example, if you live in disgust every day, your brain will be extremely entangled and tired, which will lead to problems in the function and endocrine function of the autonomic nervous system, the secretion of corticosteroids will become worse, and your body will become less and less energetic.
On the contrary, if you have been living a happy life, corticosteroids will be secreted well, and it will enter blood vessels and internal organs, making the functions of these organs work well, thus making your physical strength stronger.
Because of the ups and downs of inner emotions, the body will change, which means that human beings are easily changed. Therefore, an idea in the mother's heart and a word to the child can make the child change and dig out the excellent talents that the child originally had. Therefore, when cultivating and educating children, let's stop looking at children with negative thoughts!