Every child is unique, they have their own growth rhythm and talent. As parents, we should adjust our expectations for our children and set appropriate goals for them. In this way, children will not feel too much pressure, but also gradually approach our expectations in continuous progress.

Explain things patiently

Simple "prohibition" often fails to achieve the expected effect, and may even arouse children's curiosity. Communicating with children and patiently explaining why something can't be done or how to do it will make children more willing to accept and abide by the rules. For example, when limiting children's playing time, explaining the negative effects of playing games for a long time will make children control themselves more consciously.

Fully respect children

When children are disobedient, beating and cursing is not the best choice. Real education is based on respect. Respecting children means listening to their voices, giving them the opportunity to express their opinions and letting them make their own decisions on certain things. In this way, we can not only eliminate the rebellious mentality, but also cultivate their independence and sense of responsibility.