1, children have no rules and can't get used to it; As the saying goes, Fiona Fang can't be made without rules. If there are no rules made by parents to restrain him from childhood, it is easy for children to do whatever they want and not know whether their words and deeds are good or bad. The so-called freedom is to let children move freely under the premise of rules.

It's time to make rules. Don't think children can continue to get used to it when they are young. If you get used to it now, parents can't control it if they want to. Therefore, it will be difficult to teach children to understand social rules from an early age and clearly tell them what to do and what not to do, but when children grow up, they will understand their parents' painstaking efforts.

2. Children can't get used to disrespect their elders; Because today's children are the treasures of the family, it is often the case that several old people in a family turn around their children. Some children are spoiled and have no respect for the old people.

Parents must not be used to this. If children have little or no respect for their elders, and if their parents don't correct them correctly, they will not only develop overbearing and unreasonable characters for a long time, but also become unpopular people in the group.

Methods of educating children

Listening attentively is one of the best ways to educate children. By listening attentively, children can better understand what the teacher said and improve the learning effect. At the same time, listening attentively is also an emotional communication, which can enhance the affection between parents and children. Only by listening attentively can we truly understand children's needs and establish a good teacher-student relationship.

Creative praise is a kind of affirmation and praise for children. Through specific details and compliments, for example, it is really polite for you to take the initiative to say good morning to the doorman uncle today. This way can make children feel proud and affirmed. At the same time, praise and reward should be realistic, and don't encourage children's false expectations.