In June 165438+ 10, he attended the lecture given by Professor Zou Xiaobing in Zhongshan Third People's Hospital. At the lecture, Professor Zou recommended several books and several movies, including Little Doudou by the Window.

When he recommended Little Peas by the Window, he discussed how to educate children with autism, especially children with moderate or mild autism.

What is an ideal education? What is the ideal special education? I found the answer in this book.

The ideal education is that everyone can find their own sense of belonging and value, and find their own sunny childhood;

The ideal special education is that no one is special and everyone is accepted and treated equally.

Naughty little Doudou was expelled from school as soon as he entered primary school. The teacher's reason is: "she goes to school alone, which will affect the whole school."

For example, constantly flipping the table cover, encouraging publicity artists to perform in front of the window, drawing and drawing paper, leaving traces on the table. ...

All these behaviors are regarded as intolerable problem behaviors by teachers. Correcting the failure, the teacher called Doudou's mother to the school and gently proposed to let Xiaodoudou transfer.

To this end, she came to Ba Xueyuan and became a first-year student in Ba Xueyuan. Under the care and guidance of the headmaster, Mr. Sousaku Kobayashi, he became a confident, cheerful and lovely child.

Who would have thought that ten years later, the naughty little Doudou became a famous TV presenter in Japan. Her real name is Tetsuko Kuroyanagi. The little peas by the window are Tetsuko Kuroyanagi's memories and discoveries of childhood experiences.

"Today, Xiao Doudou is a special child." Professor Zou said: "But with proper education, she has been well guided and brought into play."

The story of Ba Xueyuan, even today's adults, can still feel the happiness of children and feel extremely warm when reading it.

What kind of feeling is that? A feeling of finding a sense of belonging and value.

Sense of belonging: I can be here.

There are only more than 50 students in the small class teaching in Ba Xue Garden. Among these more than 50 students, many are children with special needs: polio, dwarfism, and children like Xiao Doudou who can't stay in ordinary schools.

They are different children in the mainstream society. In Ba Xueyuan, it's all the same. All the children are here and are happily accepted. Xiao Doudou listened to her for four hours when she was interviewed by Ba Xueyuan! Until Xiao Doudou can't think of words anymore! Xiao Doudou sighed: I feel that I have met someone I really like for the first time in my life! No one has ever listened to her talk for such a long time. For such a long time, the headmaster didn't yawn once and listened attentively.

Eliminating shame, transcending inferiority and receiving education equally can be seen everywhere in the teaching of Ba Xueyuan. There are swimming activities in the Ba Xue Garden, and all children must be naked, even those with physical disabilities. Everyone can see each other's bodies. In this activity, children don't have to be ashamed of their bodies. They swim freely and have a good time in the water.

For another example, the curriculum of Ba Xueyuan is very different from that of ordinary schools: children are free to choose subjects of interest and start learning. Some children have good experimental results, physics in the first class; Some children like to write, so they have Chinese in the first class. Therefore, you will see the wonders of children taking different classes by themselves in the same class. This not only follows the interests of children, but also makes them understand that everyone's hobbies are different, but they are all accepted.

Sense of value: I am useful and I can make a contribution.

When children have a sense of security and belonging in the Ba Academy, their needs are left to develop: develop their own ideas, hobbies and abilities and spread their love to others.

In Ba Xueyuan, children have enough time to do what they want, and teachers will not interfere.

Once, Xiao Doudou's most cherished wallet accidentally fell into the school toilet. Xiao Doudou didn't cry or give up, but immediately ran to the warehouse where the uncle of the school worker put his tools, carrying a long spoon for sprinkling water. Xiao Doudou found the toilet opening and scooped it up outside. Unconsciously, the scooped things piled up into a hill. Mr Kobayashi, the headmaster, passed by and asked about the situation. He just said, "You have to put all this back when it's over" and walked away.

After Xiao Doudou found that he couldn't find it, he completely put the hill back into the original urinal according to the agreement with the principal. Although I haven't found her little thing after working for a long time, she feels very fulfilled.

This is how children's sense of value and learning happen in life. Almost all the teaching activities in Ba Xueyuan are carried out in natural situations and experiences.

The children's favorite learning activities in Ba Xueyuan are walking, walking and observation. Before walking to the yellow rape flower, the teacher will stop and ask the children, "This is rape flower. Why does rape blossom? Do you know? " Then, the teacher talked about stamens and pistils; On the day of the group picnic, the students were divided into groups by guessing fists. Some children wash rice, some cut vegetables and some season. Everyone did their job. Through the picnic, Xiao Doudou wrote, "The children realized the fun of cooking by themselves and knew how difficult it was to cook. They also know that all kinds of food will change greatly from raw to cooked. ..... More importantly, this is my own cooking. "

Sense of belonging and value is not only needed by ordinary children, but also by special children.

Sense of belonging comes from acceptance, understanding and order. As a nurturer, accepting children's differences, understanding the characteristics and motives behind children's problem behaviors, and building stable rules and order are conducive to establishing a stable and good attachment relationship. When children have a good relationship with their parents and learn the most basic rules of getting along with others from their parents, it is possible to establish interest in people and then promote other interpersonal relationships.

Sense of value comes from respect and authorization. Parents need to respect their children's right to choose. When they can make a choice that suits their interests from the choices given by their parents and feel "capable" and "capable", they will realize the benefits of interacting with others. For example, if a child wants to eat an apple, parents can let the child choose to eat half or one, red apple or green apple, raw apple or ripe apple. In the process of natural selection, children understand the meaning of choice and naturally establish the cognition of "half", "one", "red", "green", "raw" and "cooked". The quantity, color and ripeness at this time are meaningful to children. On the other hand, appropriately creating some difficulties and empowering children to solve them are conducive to cultivating the ability to solve problems independently.

There are many short stories in the book, and it is highly recommended to read the original.

Thanks to "Little Peas by the Window", I once again realized the true meaning of education.