China is a highly selective society, screening people at every stage. Physical fitness means insulation, which comes from a layer of quality education. If you think about it carefully, it seems that parents have fallen into a strange circle since their children received education. In other words, if a child can't go to kindergarten, he can't go to a good primary school. You can't go to a good primary school or a good middle school. If you can't go to a good middle school, you can't go to Peking University Tsinghua.

In the education system, all study groups will not be isolated. So I don't know when cram schools and attention classes became the standard for children in China, and parents were involved in the battle for money, money, money and resources. This phenomenon is particularly obvious among the new middle class families in China. Children work hard, parents work hard, let children win at the starting line, can second class of guangdong? Blackmail is probably the best description of middle-class parents and children. The salary is 35 thousand, but the children can't stand summer vacation. Over the years, this explosive information has attracted people's attention. Children's education has also become the focus of the new middle class families, and the investment in children's education is also increasing.

You don't race against time. Of course, others brush questions that you can't do and go to cram schools that you didn't sign up for. Middle-class parents say that capital can be inherited, but knowledge cannot be inherited. The class that is most prone to decline is the middle class that leaps to the top with knowledge and technology. Therefore, parents should not only arm themselves, but also force themselves to maintain good social relations and, of course, prepare enough money. You can pay at least 10 thousand yuan for sponsorship. The end result is that parents put pressure on their children and schools, and schools continue to pass some pressure on their children. Gradually, the whole society is full of anxiety of "fearing that children will lose at the starting line". Although everyone says in their hearts that winning is at the starting point, when everyone goes to grab it, the starting line can only be further. In this fierce educational competition, the new middle-class parents sacrificed most of their personal time, but also paid expensive tuition, extracurricular colleges, interest classes, travel expenses, and even a series of expenses for their children to go abroad in the future.

Utilitarianism is at work, parents suffer, and children are tired. In the final analysis, the instability of education is the emotional response of parents to the uncertainty of their children's future and educational path. The fundamental reason for this physiological anxiety and even pathological instability is that parents have unscientific understanding of education and educational laws, and even fall into the situation of crazy demons.