1, encourage children to go out and focus on the future. The unqualified list is a fait accompli. No matter how parents blame them, they will only increase the pressure and irritability in their children's hearts, and blindly accommodating their children to say something comforting will not play much role at this time. Parents should carefully observe the changes of children's emotions and movements, encourage children to go out of the house or participate in some group activities to distract their attention and relieve stress. Parents should take the initiative to take their children to meet their relatives, friends and neighbors, face the fact of falling out of the list calmly, and let the children feel that he will always be the pride of their parents. Only in this way can they help children regain their self-confidence. 2. Help children rebuild their self-confidence. After learning that the college entrance examination failed, children have to bear great psychological pressure and lose self-confidence. Parents should give their children emotional support and help them analyze the reasons for their failure in the college entrance examination. Don't show negative emotions in front of children. On the one hand, we should communicate with children psychologically in time, guide them to recognize the reality, treat success and temporary failure correctly, face the reality correctly, make use of examples of ourselves or relatives and friends as much as possible, educate them purposefully, let them get out of frustration and depression as soon as possible, treat themselves objectively and face the reality correctly. Don't praise others in front of children. At this time, the child is in a period of strong self-esteem and psychological sensitivity, and a little stimulation from the outside world is very likely to cause an uproar in the child's heart. There must be students from to beno. 1 around children, so parents should try to avoid the contact between left-behind children and these students from to beno. 1. If it is unavoidable, parents should first guide their children to treat their classmates in to beno. 1 correctly. At the same time, talk about the advantages of children in front of classmates. Parents should not say things that hurt their children's self-esteem in front of outsiders, relatives and friends, and successful people, such as "Look at others and then look at you", "Some people are smart" and "Why don't you learn from others?" Try not to artificially cause big psychological and spiritual fluctuations in children's hearts. 4. Choose and plan the future road with your children. A test score cannot measure all the abilities of a child. Parents should help their children choose the right way out in the future according to their wishes and let them feel valued and respected. This is undoubtedly a great affirmation for them at this time, which can alleviate the psychological hints of self-denial and being denied by others to some extent. What should I do if my child fails in the college entrance examination? If you have the motivation to study, don't want to get such a low score, want to show revenge on the battlefield of the college entrance examination, want to attack famous schools, want to pay homage to your ancestors, and want to go to a better university, then choose to repeat it hard. Go to a bad school. Tired of the pressure of study, if you want to pass the college entrance examination well, or if you don't want to waste time, you can choose a school with tolerable grades and not fall into the state of Sun Shan. Go out to work. Students who really fail in the exam, have poor grades and have no family background can go out to work, which can not only reduce the family burden, but also earn money and accumulate social experience. Start your own business. If the family economy allows, you can borrow a sum of money from your parents, or you can borrow money from the bank, open a shop with a few good friends and do some small business, but there is no upper limit on your entrepreneurial income! Go to a technical school. What should I do if I don't want to enter the society so early and can't get into college? Then go to a technical school! Television, newspapers and various advertising channels will have some publicity. It is also a good choice to choose your own school and learn skills. How to deal with the failure of children's college entrance examination? Way out: Full-time self-taught colleges provide flexible learning space for failed students. Suitable for the crowd: candidates with average family economic conditions, firm goal of becoming a talent and perseverance in learning. Characteristics of self-taught examination: the diploma of self-taught examination is generally recognized internationally. Execution: 1, lenient entry and strict exit; 2. Examiners of key institutions; 3. The tuition fee for self-taught education is low; 5. Students can be completely free. Introduction to self-examination: Candidates are not limited by gender, age, nationality, race and education level, and can choose relevant majors according to their own conditions to participate in the study of this professional course without passing the entrance examination. After the unified examination organized by the state, I got qualified results. After passing all the theoretical and practical courses stipulated in the teaching plan, you can get a college diploma or an undergraduate diploma. Undergraduate graduates can also apply for a bachelor's degree. Self-taught degree is recognized by the state, and self-taught graduates enjoy the same treatment as similar graduates in ordinary colleges and universities. Way out 2: Adult college entrance examination, which provides the most open education for students who have failed in the list. Suitable for the crowd: candidates with great learning potential and poor family economy. Characteristics of entrance examination: entrance examination is relatively easy, learning forms are diversified, formal academic qualifications are recognized by the state, and professional settings are novel, so students can basically be admitted to the reported schools. As long as they study hard, they can graduate smoothly. Introduction: It is the abbreviation of the entrance examination for adult higher education, and it is a national examination like the college entrance examination. At the beginning, it was established to solve the problem of academic education and continuing education of on-the-job personnel, and most of the participants were adults. Nowadays, the age of adult college entrance examination students has generally decreased, and many adult graduates have become the backbone of their industries, and some have taken up leadership positions, making contributions to the country's economic and cultural construction. Like the general college entrance examination, candidates need to take the national unified entrance examination for adult colleges and universities once a year. Way out 3: Sino-foreign cooperation in running schools provides professional opportunities to go abroad. Characteristics of running a school: It refers to the educational and teaching activities organized by China educational institutions and foreign educational institutions in China in cooperation with China citizens according to law. Sino-foreign cooperation in running schools can be divided into two forms: cooperative founding institutions and cooperative organizing projects. Application reminder: the form is novel, and the school-running model is still in the exploration stage. However, if you provide professional opportunities to go abroad and apply rationally, you must not "blindly" follow suit. Way out: Private colleges and universities provide opportunities for students who fail to receive academic education. Suitable for the crowd: candidates with not too low college entrance examination scores, good family conditions and special skills and interests in some aspects. Characteristics of enrollment: broad entrance and strict exit, flexible mechanism, strong application and professionalism, and strong adaptability of students. Private school profile: refers to a school where enterprises, institutions, social organizations, other social organizations and individual citizens use non-state financial education funds to implement higher education, or an educational institution that implements higher non-academic education for the society according to the standards set by the state and the municipal education administrative department. Compared with public universities, private universities pay more attention to their own school-running characteristics and respect students' hobbies.