1. Make rules: Make rules and explain the importance and consequences of rules to children in a clear way. Ensure that the rules are reasonable and clear, and give children corresponding rewards or punishments;
2. Be a good example: as parents, show positive behaviors and values, become an example for children to imitate, and try to avoid negative words and deeds and impulsive behaviors;
3. Active communication: establish active communication channels with children, encourage children to express their thoughts and emotions, listen to their views, and strive to understand their needs and ideas. Establish a good parent-child relationship and trust foundation;
4. Pay attention to children's interests: help children explore their hobbies and strengths, and give them support and encouragement. Let children participate in beneficial activities to cultivate their self-confidence and enthusiasm;
5. Appropriate rewards: When children show good behaviors and attitudes, timely giving positive feedback and rewards, such as praise, encouragement or small gifts, can enhance children's willingness to take positive actions;
9. Appropriate punishment: When children violate the rules or behave poorly, appropriate disciplinary and punishment measures are implemented. Ensure that the punishment is reasonable and appropriate, and explain it clearly to the children so that they can understand and correct their mistakes.
It is important to be patient and firm in the process of education, to give children enough love and care, and to listen, respect and understand each other with children is the key to effective education.