My mother-in-law and I always quarrel because of different concepts of raising children. What should we do?
Don't say that mother-in-law and daughter-in-law have different parenting concepts, even with their own mothers, there is no lack of disputes. But my mother-in-law has a little affection, and we will respect her and let her go. Sometimes our emotions are wrong, and our mother-in-law will tolerate us. Mother-in-law should try to manage her feelings well at ordinary times. It is normal to have different parenting concepts, which will not affect the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law. Pay attention to attitude, ways and means of communication, and communicate if you really can't. Be a good husband. For example, this time, my son reached the age of primary school at the age of six, but because we didn't hand over the building until February, the local policy was that we had to live on campus and school would start in September, so we didn't have time to put the child in grandma's house for foster care. Grandma wants to put her son in preschool for convenience. I'm afraid he won't learn anything. In elementary school, I advocated sending him to preschool, which should have been directly attended. However, grandparents can't help them with their homework. Primary schools need family education together. Parents of primary school students are highly involved. My next-door neighbor is a teacher. Their children have read independently before entering school. You can learn more than 1000 common words. We were exhausted. We only made up one or two hundred words in the summer vacation. Teachers make rapid progress, and most of the time students will pass. I have to help at home and dare not let my son go to primary school. When I bring my son here, I will personally grasp my study habits and help with my homework. I'm afraid he won't, and then I'm tired of learning and I'm in trouble. I'd rather go to preschool for one more year, but my mother-in-law just doesn't want to and can't justify it. Finally, I lost patience, let my husband come forward to solve it, and let my son talk well. Now that it's solved, I'm relieved to move bricks!