The expression of post-criticism is flexible and diverse, which basically belongs to the category of discussion, but writing is different from general argumentative essays because it must be based on reading. The following is my review of the 2022 family education open class, hoping to provide you with reference.
Comments on the Open Class of Family Education in 2022 (1) Parents are children's first teachers, and good family education is of vital significance to children's growth. The following are some experiences told by a parent.
From my parents' initial enlightenment education to educating my daughter now, my life experience tells me that family education is as important to children as school education, and even determines their development direction and affects their life. Now I will talk about my experience on the issue of family education.
Adults are the target. Learning to be a man is the foundation of children, and children will benefit for life. Educate children to have a healthy psychology and a sound personality, and never let them become knowledgeable, eccentric, indifferent to their parents and indifferent to others and society. We should treat children as independent people, fully respect and understand them, and reason with them no matter how big their mistakes are. I have always adhered to this educational principle for children, so that they can get all-round development in morality, intelligence, physique, beauty and labor under the education of school, society and family, and at least become qualified citizens who are beneficial to society and adapt to modern society.
Parents are mirrors. "Genius" can't be created, but as long as parents seize the opportunity to discover, cultivate and develop their children's talents and use their own efforts to follow their own path of life, their children may succeed. Parents are not only natural teachers, but also guardians, partners, friends and role models. Children's words and deeds reflect their parents' ideology. It is not easy to be a parent, and it is even harder to be a good parent. That's true. How to be a good parent, I think, first of all, we should strive to "learn to care". Parents should set an example, care about the society, the country, others, friends and colleagues. Make them respect the old and love the young, be humble and help each other, be tolerant and generous, and be kind to others. Secondly, we should strengthen our self-cultivation. Parents should adhere to moral education, abide by the law, and consciously demonstrate to their children practical activities to improve moral quality in line with socialist moral principles and norms. Thirdly, we should create a harmonious environment. The educational environment is a thermometer for children's growth. To build a harmonious family and society, the subtle influence of family life atmosphere can not be ignored, and the moral spirit of family elders can not be underestimated. If children live with proper praise and encouragement, they will learn self-esteem and self-confidence. Living in humiliation, he will learn to feel inferior; Living in equality, he will learn justice; Living with quarrels, complaints, preferences and lack of warmth, he will learn sophistry, blame, jealousy and indifference ... This reality is "teaching without words". Not alarmist.
Children are teachers. Parents should be good at learning their children's strengths. Children have many "lovely shortcomings" that adults should learn from. Such as exuberant vitality and good learning attitude; Not conservative, good at accepting new things; Less sophisticated, sincere and straightforward to people and things; Parents should learn from new technologies, new toys and other unknown knowledge and master the ability to play with them as soon as possible. This advantage of children should be fully affirmed, encouraged and praised by parents, and should not be ignored, accused, suppressed or even stifled.
Respect for teachers is the key. Teachers are the main body of the trinity system education of school, society and family, the engineers of human soul, the founders of children's happiness, the comforters and healers of the soul. For me, I have a deep understanding. My child is a single-parent family, and the feelings of respecting teachers and respecting morality are relatively weak, and the academic foundation is not stable enough. However, his teacher has injected a lot of sincere love and tried his best to strengthen school education with a strong sense of responsibility and dedication, so that my children can develop in a more all-round way in morality, intelligence and physical education, and make up for the shortage of our family education. Such a teacher is highly respected by me, my children and society.
In the future, I am determined to actively cooperate with the school to educate my children so that they can become useful talents who can adapt to modern society. The above experience is just my opinion.
Comments on the Open Class of Family Education in 2022 (II) Speaking of children, probably every parent has endless topics. The growth of children has poured too much effort and love into us. Of course, children have also brought us countless joys. Children are growing up day by day, from babbling and toddlering to today's children, and their changes bring us surprises one by one. In fact, the growth process of children is also the growth process of our parents, and we are constantly learning and making progress in their schools. I really don't know whether we taught the children or the children taught us.
The birth of a child means the beginning of education, which can be divided into family education, social education and school education. Parents can't just care about their children's intellectual development and academic performance. In my opinion, parents should pay attention to: children's physical and mental health education; Emotional education; Social morality; The education of non-intellectual factors such as will quality is family education. Knowledge transfer and intellectual development must be completed by school education. Even if parents know this knowledge, they may not know how to solve problems, or even contradict the methods of professional teachers. Therefore, as long as parents do a good job in family education, they will support teachers' work. Below, I will talk about some of my experiences in children's education.
My 8-year-old son is in the third grade in the second primary school. He has something to be proud of: his children have developed in an all-round way and his learning progress is very obvious. He has certain independent ability and can take the initiative to learn; Have a certain sense of responsibility and love, be considerate and respectful of parents, live in harmony with children, understand the hardships of labor and have strong communication skills. But there are also many problems, such as carelessness, love to play computer games, and slow work.
When it comes to educating children, I don't think there is any success. However, the child has grown from a hungry baby to a child who knows a little about personnel. This process is indeed the condensation of our parents' painstaking efforts. There is also a lot of confusion. Let me talk about some educational ideas and experiences of our family.
First, the word "strict" took the lead and seized the critical period of primary school.
Hu Shi, a great scholar, once said, "When a person is young, it is most important. In the future, becoming a great saint, a great hero, a great hero, a great traitor, a great thief and a great thief are all divorced from this kind of family education. " Nowadays, there are more only children in society, family conditions are better, and there are more phenomena of discipline from generation to generation and even asking others to discipline children. In the process of children's growth, many parents often ignore the strict education of their children, "love" and "spoil" their children and spoil them. If they are rude to others, their parents and grandparents should do things for them themselves, talk while doing their homework, or ask adults to accompany them with their homework. For example, among the college students and high school students I know, there have been incidents of asking my parents to cook for me. We should never think that this is a trivial matter. I call it an event because I think such a child is spoiled, selfish and self-centered. No sympathy, no self-care ability, no will to overcome difficulties.
The purpose of my family's education for children is to let them understand truth and virtue and become a sincere and sincere person. Everything should be guided correctly, so that children can develop the habit of understanding and attaching importance to morality. Children should be trained to think more about the public and try to get rid of selfish ideas. Children are required to have love, love the country, love their parents, love the society, honor their parents and respect their teachers. Study hard and don't slack off. Strive to be a student with all-round development in morality, intelligence and physique.
My family's habit of raising children is strict and lenient. In kindergartens and primary schools, children are obedient, easy to discipline and easy to form good habits. At this time, I am very strict with my son. As long as children form good habits when they are young, they will not be out of line if they are bigger and looser. This is a critical period, and any education has a critical period. It is most effective to cultivate children's behavior habits at this age. If this kind of education is carried out after this age, the effect may be much worse. The primary school stage is the most critical period to establish routine and cultivate good study habits. It is most effective to cultivate all kinds of good habits at this stage. Grasping this link is equivalent to grasping the child's future.
Second, cultivate a sense of independence, so that children have no thoughts of dependence.
Children grow up day by day, but no matter how long they grow, they will always be children in the eyes of their parents. We always feel that they can't do this or that and need our help everywhere. In fact, children's abilities are often beyond our imagination. The key is whether we will let them do it. Maybe we all have this experience. It seems that a child will do something overnight that we have never specifically called him. We will be surprised: how did he learn it? This is the child. As long as we let him take the first step, they will give us a big surprise! Maybe sometimes we think it is not so easy for them to do it by themselves, but children will do it two or three times at a time and will do it well one day! If you don't let him do it, I'm afraid he will never do it well. At home, we try to let children do what they can, such as serving food, pouring tea and sweeping the floor for adults. Communication ability in modern society is also very important, and we should also pay attention to training. On the one hand, we encourage children to communicate with others, on the other hand, we also give them some communication skills.
Third, pay attention to children's growth, communicate with children more, be good parents, answer questions in time and guide children correctly.
Our family is harmonious and happy, which provides a good family environment for the healthy growth of children. Family disharmony is often more harmful to children than adults, which will make children lose their sense of security, easily form bad personality and psychology, and lack sense of responsibility and love. A good family environment can provide necessary fertile soil for children's healthy growth. At the same time, my family attaches great importance to moral education, and only by being a man can we do things. Moral education mainly starts with such trivial things as asking our son not to lie, not to take other people's things and not to litter. The content of moral education also changes with the growth of children. Of course, we will do what parents ask our children to do first. Teaching by example is more important than teaching by words, as Confucius said: "Being upright and acting without orders". The influence of parents' words and deeds on children is subtle. In addition, parents should not condescend to carry out moral education for their children, but should do it in an atmosphere of democracy and equality; In addition, children's education is a step-by-step process, which cannot be achieved overnight. We usually take a little time every day to pay attention to our children's growth: how is the homework done and how is the study progressing? What's new? Aren't you happy? Especially when children are confused, frustrated and make mistakes, communicate with them in time, give correct guidance and adjust their mentality. At the same time, from the people and things around us in daily life, children are subtly educated about life and values, so that children can establish lofty ideals from an early age, thus inspiring endless motivation in their hearts. At the same time, it is children's nature to love to play. Without too much extracurricular training, we never deprive children of the right to play.
Fourth, contact teachers frequently to learn about children's learning situation and performance at school.
Families and schools should always keep in touch and be consistent. Parents should take the initiative to visit the teacher at school, reflect their children's learning situation and ideological attitude at home, and ask their children about their learning attitude at school, whether they are serious in class and whether they speak positively. If your child is insufficient in some aspects, you can have targeted education after returning to China. We didn't do very well in this respect. Fortunately, the teacher contacted us in time, which avoided educating children to take detours and avoiding the formation of some bad habits.
Family education is a complex systematic project. My family's education for children is still not enough, and we are still exploring some methods. We will continue to work hard, learn from the successful experience of other people's family education, and discuss with teachers and parents, so that children can develop in an all-round way, become excellent students with all-round development in morality, intelligence and physique, serve the motherland and people in the future, and be a wise, moral, conscious and promising person.
Parents, children and grandchildren, do not dye bad habits. Children should be educated to study hard and work hard, and they will become the pillars of our country in the future. Benefit the people; First of all, we should carry out moral education for children, know reason and morality, and educate children to become sincere and sincere people.
Greed and laziness are the main causes of human depravity. In any case, we should guide everything correctly, cultivate children's habit of understanding and attaching importance to morality, cultivate children's thought of serving the public and get rid of all selfish thoughts. Children are required to have love, love the country, love their parents, love society, love all people and things, and respect their parents and teachers. Study hard and don't slack off. Strive to be a student with all-round development in morality, intelligence and physique. Stepping into society in the future is not for yourself, but for the benefit of the people.
Educate children to be ambitious. People can't achieve great things without ambition. Ambition is one's goal. Therefore, our family often urges children to have clear goals. Ask children to be ambitious. Clear the direction and study hard. Diligent, at home, ask children to do "parents call and answer;" Parents, don't be lazy. At school, children are required to "respect teachers and listen to their teaching". "Listen carefully in class, complete all the homework assigned by the teacher on time, unite students and learn from each other's strengths; Do as many things as possible that are beneficial to the public at school. Strictly abide by school rules, educate children to strive to be an excellent student with all-round development in morality, intelligence and physique, serve the motherland and people in the future, and be a wise, moral and conscious person. This is our family's expectation and education plan for children.
Comments on the Open Class of Family Education in 2022 (III) 1. Pay attention to the consistency of family education.
Suhomlinski, an educator in the former Soviet Union, once said: "The two educators, the school and the family, should not only act in unison and put forward the same requirements for their children, but also have the same interests and beliefs, always proceed from the same principles, and there must be no differences in the purpose, process or means of education." Therefore, we must pay attention to the consistency of family education when educating children. For example, schools require children to wear school uniforms. When we come to school without snacks and toys, we must cooperate closely with the school to let the children know that parents support the school work, and the teacher's words are beyond doubt. If you don't know anything about school education, you must remember not to talk and complain in front of your children, so as not to cause them to distrust school education.
2. Pay attention to "diligence"
Always look through children's textbooks and check their homework; Communicate with children more (children are growing up, recommend more good things you see, tell them what happened around you, let them feel your wisdom and attitude towards life, and let them have no sense of distance from you); Always observe the changes of children's language and behavior (such as who has interacted most recently and who knows his friends); Keep in touch. Call the teacher regularly to learn about the children's study at school and give feedback on their performance at home.
3. Cultivate children's sense of responsibility
(1) Keep homework on time;
② Finish the homework on time;
(3) Remind parents to fulfill their obligations, dictation, reading and signing on time;
(4) Correcting mistakes in homework on time;
⑤ Prepare all kinds of stationery for study on time, such as exercise books, pens, erasers, and handmade materials, and check and organize school bags;
6. Bring a red scarf every day.
⑦ Do some housework within your power, such as putting dirty clothes on the washing machine, washing dishes and chopsticks, cleaning the table, taking out the garbage and taking newspapers;
When a child is in school, his parents should teach him to be a dutiful student and a conscientious class cadre.
Parents can refer to the text message sent by the teacher or call the teacher in person when the child is not fully prepared, and urge the child to do well, complete his task seriously and implement his homework. Children should be praised and encouraged in time when they do it. If necessary, use the child's pocket money to reward.
4. Emphasize persuasion education.
Usually guide children to read some books suitable for children, such as good habits, good quality, first aid, excellent fairy tales and so on. When encountering problems, think from the child's point of view, compare stories and truths, and let children understand why they can't do this and what should they do? Why are you doing this?
5. Pay attention to parents' words and deeds and set an example.
Whether parents are tall or not in children's minds is directly proportional to the educational effect. Because we love reading very much, our son likes the books we bought for him imperceptibly. He asks every word and studies it. At present, he knows many words. Now I am typing this article on the computer and he is reading it. If he doesn't understand, he will ask. This feeling is very good. For example, if you keep your word, correct it when you know it's wrong. Don't make a scene in front of the children, engage in confrontation, and Qi Xin will work together to show their respective advantages and set an example for the children.
6. Pay attention to creating a learning atmosphere.
Children's books are concentrated on the bookshelf for children to browse; Homework should be done in the designated place, and parents should accompany them to study. On the one hand, we should help children explain some words, on the other hand, we should concentrate on demonstrating our study time and not interrupt casually. Study and play should not be mixed together. I don't usually watch TV. If I watch it, I also watch programs suitable for children, such as children's channels or scientific exploration. For work reasons, I sometimes prepare lessons and write lesson plans at home, or read an encyclopedia to learn about health care knowledge and apply it to relatives to create useful theories for children.
7. Pay attention to children's "education"
Children usually like to read hundreds of thousands of popular science books such as The Mystery of Life and The Mystery of the Universe, and often ask us some strange questions from time to time. When we know, we will answer them positively, and sometimes we will humbly ask him, can you tell us? Mom and dad also want to know why. At this time, the child will say "Haha, you don't know"? Then he will be happy to tell us what he just read in the book, and we will give a thumbs-up and praise the child for being great! The child's face will raise a very fulfilling smile. The child knows that you are really interested in his small achievements, and he will work harder to win your praise next time. When we accidentally run a red light and throw away the rubbish in our hands, the children will also educate us with the teacher's tone. We will apologize seriously and say that we must correct it. At this time, children are our parents' teachers. We attach importance to children's "education" and children will attach importance to our education.
The above is just a family opinion. If there is anything wrong, please criticize and correct it from teachers and parents. thank you
Comments on 2022 Open Class of Family Education (IV) Family education is an important part of education and the foundation of school education and social education. Family education for children in primary school and after middle school is a supplement and extension of school education, which plays an important role in children's life. As a parent, I deeply feel the importance of family education. Family education affects children's future growth and produces some experiences about children's education.
First, the renewal of family education concept.
The traditional concept of moral education must be changed, for example, children must obey their parents unconditionally (even if they are wrong), and parents often criticize their children condescendingly, always trying to make their children stand out and honor their ancestors. We should pay attention to the cultivation of children's innovative spirit and practical ability, the spirit of self-reliance, self-improvement, unity and hard work, the cultivation of good psychological quality and the development of interpersonal coordination ability, and cultivate children into builders and successors of the socialist cause with ideals, morality, culture, discipline and all-round development of morality, intelligence, physique and beauty, so as to adapt to the life of the future society.
Second, the basic principles of family education
1. Parents should have the same attitude towards their children's education. It should be consistent and unified with school education.
2. Teaching students in accordance with their aptitude is combined with all-round development. We should not only attach importance to the development of children's personality and specialty, but also attach importance to the coordinated development of all aspects of quality. Parents should set an example. Parents' words and deeds have a far-reaching impact on children; Parents should do what their children are asked to do first.
4, often discuss various issues with children. Strengthen the communication and exchange of thoughts and feelings between the two sides, understand the children's thoughts and practices, correctly encourage, guide and correct mistakes. When criticizing children, let them defend and refute.
I am always full of hope for my children. Always encourage children, cultivate their self-confidence, and let them experience the happiness of study and life. ...
Third, exchange family education information and experience.
Listen to lectures by family education experts, read more books and periodicals on family education, communicate with schools, teachers and parents, learn about family education in many ways, and jointly accomplish the task of cultivating high-quality new people.
In a word, family education is a long-term, complicated and arduous task, which needs to be shared by our parents. We hope our children are useful talents to society.
Comments on the Open Class of Family Education in 2022 (V) Family education is very important for children. As a mother, I spend the most time with my children. I have to take care of their lives and their studies, so I also have a lot of experience in family education in this process. So now I will sum up my educational experience in my family:
First, cultivate children's hobbies and broaden their horizons.
As parents, we must not limit the development of children's hobbies. Children have their own interests, which can make them develop more comprehensively. I know that many parents only pay attention to their children's study. In the children's learning stage, they don't let their children touch what they like. They think it's a waste of time, so they stop children from developing hobbies. This is actually a wrong way of education. I think a good way to educate children is to better identify with the development of children's hobbies, cultivate children's development in this area, and broaden their horizons as much as possible. Cultivating their interests from an early age will help them find their own goals in life when they grow up, and it is also the driving force to push their children forward. Learning is important, but it is not dead learning, but living learning. Besides, interest is within the scope of study. With interest, how can you be unwilling to learn?
Second, cultivate children's habit of loving labor.
Labor is very important, especially for children. It can cultivate children's sense of responsibility in the process of labor, and make children more sympathetic to their parents and understand their hardships. Proper family work plays a great role in the healthy growth of children. Many great achievements of mankind are produced by labor. Therefore, by cultivating children's working habits, children can learn to be independent and responsible for their own lives, so that children can feel the joy of labor. A person who loves labor, his sense of responsibility will certainly not be bad, and he will also help children grow up in the process of their growth.
Third, the rewards and punishments for children should be clear.
In a family, the most taboo is to spoil children too much. Spoiling will only destroy children. A good education means a clear distinction between reward and punishment. If the child makes a mistake, let the child realize that he has made a mistake and know how to admit his mistake and correct it. When children do the right thing, they should also be rewarded and praised. Children who grow up with praise will be more motivated. They know that if they succeed in doing things right, they will be praised by others, which is a kind of affirmation for them, and that child will become confident and diligent. Like at home, if the child does something wrong, I will guide him to admit his mistake and apologize, so that he will take responsibility for his mistake. So now he is more and more measured, he will try his best to help me do housework and take the initiative to take charge of his own affairs.
Family education is of great help to children's growth, so family education must be good to cultivate good children.