First, learn to listen to children's thoughts and gain insight into their inner world.

Parents all hope that their children can become talents, have a good future, and cultivate their children with the best educational methods they think. I am no exception. I try my best to meet the needs of children. But when Dabao entered the third grade, I gradually found that there was a big problem with my education method, and my children didn't like to communicate with me.

Until the second week of this semester, my children and I had a fierce dispute over a math problem about the weather vane, which was the biggest difference in our first study. In the end, he won the "victory" with a proud attitude. The child changed the answer he wrote to the one I insisted on with tears, and the result was correct. However, before going to bed the next day, the child told me that what he did was right and that he was the only one in the class who did wrong. He also took the initiative to consult the math teacher.

I had mixed feelings at that time, thinking about how terrible my mother was and educating him in such a strong way. It's not that he didn't insist, but that he insisted until the end and was refuted by me naked. After what happened, I felt that my child loved me more than I did. He can accept and tolerate my rudeness, but he is willing to hug me and say, "Mom, I love you!" " "

When I learned Article 17 of the Family Education Law: equal communication, respect, understanding and encouragement. I understand better that children have their own ideas and persistence in the process of growing up, and his heart wants to be respected, understood and encouraged. Through this incident, I realized my mistake and adjusted it in time. I began to control my emotions, listen to my children's thoughts, guide and educate them in the way that children like, always pay attention to the children's dribs and drabs, understand his personality, and follow his growth law.

After that, whenever my educational methods are opposed or questioned by children, I no longer use the authority of parents to force children. After more than half a month's efforts, Dabao and I have returned to the previous harmonious state, sharing interesting things and new things with me, and his suggestions are often recognized by me. Every time I see the smile on his face when he is praised by me, my heart is warm. Facts have proved that guiding and educating children in the way they like can tap their potential to a greater extent and see their progress in all aspects.

Second, learn to actively cooperate with schools to cultivate children's good study habits.

Parents are concerned about their children's performance and problems in school. I think it is very scientific for schools to ask parents to sign their children's homework every day, because it is the most direct and effective way for parents to supervise and understand their children, and it is also a platform for home-school interaction. Parents can learn about their children's homework completion and problems by signing, help their children check for missing parts and solve problems together.

Actively participate in various practical activities, such as fish bone painting, fish lanterns, cartoons, roller coasters, etc. I found that the process of discussion and production with children can help me understand children better, and the practice of parent-child interaction has also enhanced the feelings of our mother and son. Therefore, I think we should learn to actively cooperate with the school to cultivate children, follow the teaching rhythm of teachers in various disciplines and the arrangement of the school in accordance with the school's educational philosophy, and cultivate children's good study habits.

Third, learn to study after school and constantly expand children's knowledge.

Besides school homework, I also made other study plans for my children, such as calligraphy, basketball and guitar. , on weekends and winter and summer vacations. All after-school studies are conducted after consulting children. Although during the study period, the child has already had the idea of giving up because of the increase in difficulty, at this time I will still tell him some inspirational stories that are like a needle.

Paragraph 2 of Article 16 of the Family Education Law points out that children should be guided to cultivate a wide range of hobbies, healthy aesthetic pursuits and good study habits, so as to promote their healthy physical and mental development. Children are particularly interested in science. They do scientific experiments three times a week to explore the mysteries of science through practical exercise. From the children's after-school study, I saw their confidence and happiness, and also expanded their knowledge.

In the spring season, we should persist in studying and learn to be good parents in the new era.