2. Suggest parents how to cultivate their children's frustration ability. Teaching emphasis and difficulty: guide parents to understand how to cultivate their children's frustration ability. Teaching process: 1. Introduction. Hello, dear parents. First of all, welcome to participate in parent school training activities. Thank you for coming to school in spite of your busy schedule, paying attention to students' learning situation and their development. Today we are discussing how to cultivate children's frustration ability. Second, help parents understand the importance of cultivating students' sound personality in family education. In order to guide minors to the right path of life, children must be cultivated into a sound person, and they should be prepared to meet setbacks, "shame" and experience pain at any time. This kind of education should especially start from primary school students and cultivate children's ability to grow up in setbacks. Because today's children are "little emperors" and "little princesses" in their parents' minds. They grew up under the careful care of their grandparents and parents, lived in the sun and absorbed the rain and dew sunshine. I am the only one, arrogant and domineering, and everything has the upper hand. Imagine, such a child, if he does not accept positive guidance from an early age, can he embark on the right path of life? They will only flinch when they encounter difficulties, lose confidence and hope when they are frustrated, and can't stand the blow. They will only push the boat with the current, not sail against it. No wonder every year in our country, primary school students die of poison because they can't face their parents' education correctly, commit suicide by jumping off a building because of classmates' ridicule, abandon school and live on the streets because of the pressure of study, and become jealous because of jealousy ... Therefore, it is extremely important to cultivate students' sound personality. As a school and family, we have the responsibility to strengthen the ability of cultivating children to face setbacks from an early age, so that they can grow up healthily in the storm. Third, parents exchange some phenomena of their children and talk about how to educate their children at ordinary times. Four. Suggest specific measures for parents to cultivate their frustration ability (1) to know themselves and improve themselves. For primary school students, their pressure is nothing more than parents' eagerness for success, academic performance and grades, quarrels with classmates, differences of opinion, severe criticism from teachers and ridicule from classmates ... However, a "little emperor" who is spoiled by parents at home. Either be naughty with your parents, fight with your classmates, become withdrawn and eccentric, or be antagonistic to your teacher. It can be seen that cultivating children's self-education from an early age is the key to helping children grow up healthily. 1, guide children to know themselves correctly, and know their strengths, weaknesses, hobbies, personalities and habits. Learn self-regulation, self-reflection, self-conscious learning, find out the gap with others, learn from others' strengths and make up for their own shortcomings. Only by knowing yourself and yourself can we constantly improve ourselves: treat ourselves correctly, get along with others, study better and face failure bravely. Especially for the underachievers in the class, they lack self-confidence, which leads to their inferiority complex, which seriously affects their physical and mental activities and learning ability, and makes their original intelligence unable to play normally. In the face of such children, it is even more necessary to help them know themselves, understand themselves, face the reality, find out the reasons, adjust themselves with a clear mind and a good attitude, overcome themselves and build confidence. We should take "failure is the mother of success" as the driving force to meet new challenges. 2. Educate yourself with typical examples. No one is perfect, each has his own strengths and loves. As long as he has confidence, he will show the value of self-realization. "Believe in yourself, I am no more stupid than others, and I can do what others can do." Over time, children know from an early age that they should give full play to their strengths and make up for their shortcomings, which can promote their healthy growth. 3. Be close to children and teach them to reflect. In family education, parents' words will inevitably hurt students. In this case, if the child does not have healthy thoughts and endurance, and cannot face it correctly, it will lead to bad consequences. Especially some introverted children, who are not good at words, are more likely to have adverse consequences. In the face of such a child, parents should enlighten and inspire him more, encourage him to self-examine and reflect, let him understand his own shortcomings, know his mistakes, find out the gaps and misunderstandings with others, and find out his own problems. Educate them from an early age to know themselves, understand themselves, improve themselves and form a good habit of self-reflection, so that they will become healthy people. (2) Learn to solve problems when encountering difficulties. In my investigation, I found that more than 50% of primary school students are picked up by their parents and grandparents, and even their small schoolbags are carried by their parents or grandparents. These people who send their children to and from school have become extremely nerdy children; Some children are dressed, eaten and washed by their parents ... such children depend on their parents for everything. They are very delicate, and their ability to live independently and bear pressure is poor, not to mention their ability to solve difficulties and problems. Once parents stay away from their children, they are caught off guard when they encounter difficulties? In this way, parents should have some simple problem-solving and problem-solving skills training. Family is the main place where children live, and parents are their first teachers. Parents' behavior and moral behavior have a decisive influence on children's growth. In order to make children grow up healthily, parents must cultivate their frustration ability to a certain extent, and can't indulge, spoil or spoil their children. It is necessary to change the concept of education and not think that there is only one child and everything must be obedient; They are too young to do anything. They do everything. We should pay attention to the cultivation of education, habit education and various abilities, and start from the small things around us. I hope that parents can keep in touch with teachers at any time, educate their children not to be afraid when they encounter difficulties, be mentally prepared to meet difficulties at any time, learn to use their brains, solve small things and problems around them, and overcome difficulties with wisdom. Some students in this class have a serious fear of learning difficulties, and their parents will help her when they encounter difficulties. I found this phenomenon several times when correcting my homework. I contacted my parents in time to make them aware of the harm of this situation and the measures to help their children solve their difficulties. We should start from the small things around us, educate our children to overcome difficulties and have a strong will. We must face up to difficulties, and we can't back down when encountering difficulties. Afterwards, it was found that this situation had improved. It seems that home-school cooperation is conducive to the healthy growth of children. I believe that children who have a healthy psychology and have experienced frustration education since childhood will become strong people in life in the future. (3) Being hit, learn to face the fatal point of life is that you can't stand the blow of setbacks. Once some people encounter a little trouble and a little setback, they can't accept it and treat it correctly. Some people are confused, depressed, unhappy, taciturn and helpless; Some people vent their anger and have a bad temper, and take all their anger out on others ..... A person will always encounter some troubles and troubles in life, and will always be hit by some different sizes, and primary school students are no exception. But most children are spoiled and cry when they encounter difficulties and setbacks, relying on their parents and teachers. How to train children to face the blow from family, school and society? This problem must attract our attention. 1, learn to face yourself. Keep a clear head when you are hit, and think more about the reasons that lead to your being hit. If it is self-inflicted, we should face ourselves bravely, dare to assume our own responsibilities, and tell our children that no one is perfect, no one is a saint, and there are mistakes. If the shoes fit, put them on. Correcting mistakes is a good boy. 2. Learn to face your parents. Parents all over the world want their children to be dragons and their daughters to be phoenixes. Parents will angrily criticize their children when they see their children's poor academic performance. Some children can't accept their parents' criticism and education, have conflicts with their parents, disobey their parents, and even demonstrate to them. Such children's thoughts and behaviors are on the verge of danger, and teachers should give them correct guidance: first, take the way of carrying out activities to let children understand and find out their mistakes in activities; The second is to communicate with children by means of communication to understand the good intentions of parents; The third is to give examples and phenomena of life, distinguish right from wrong, and correct your bad behavior. In fact, setbacks and blows are not terrible. What scares me is that I don't know how to deal with them. We should learn to meet setbacks and blows, and also learn to deal with them. Only those who dare to face classmates, teachers, parents, society, difficulties and ups and downs of life are truly brave people, the most remarkable people and the most admirable people. (4) If you are unhappy, learn to communicate, and communicate to resolve conflicts. Communication makes people happy, communication makes people progress, and communication makes people healthy. Only people who are good at communication can become truly healthy people. And some primary school students are introverted, not good at expression and communication, hit by some points, stuffy in their hearts, locked in the house, unwilling to see people. If it goes on for a long time, the ideological pressure is heavy and the burden is heavy, so they can't grow up healthily. Facing such a child, tell him to be a cheerful person. If you have something unpleasant in your heart, talk to your partner and lazy people, and they will help you solve the problem and eliminate the confusion in communication. Learn to solve yourself, learn to communicate, and strive for the support, help, understanding and interruption of others. Don't take anything to heart. There is a child in this class, the youngest and very introverted. My parents are both in business, and they have a child when they are old. They like raising the child very much. Parents dare not say that he is not. Once he says no, he will make a scene with his parents, or slam the door and choke him to death. After I know this, talk to him and enlighten him. Later, he understood. This is not only bad for your physical and mental health, but also bad for your healthy growth; If there is anything unpleasant, you should take the initiative to learn to communicate with others and seek forgiveness, understanding and help from others. Gradually, the children became sensible and learned to talk to their parents. My parents were tearful when they saw me. Facts have proved that children who have been educated in setbacks will become strong-willed people when they grow up. People who love life are strong. Only those who "love losing face, meet setbacks and experience pain" can pursue success and create brilliant life when they grow up. I hope that with the joint efforts of our teachers and parents, children can become real strong people in their study and life.