In fact, children lose their temper and hit people, mostly because of their strong self-awareness. Instead of having a headache, parents should cultivate their children how to improve their adaptability in contradictions and disputes. If children can communicate with people correctly, have strong ability to adapt to society and strong will, then there will be no such overbearing and willful behavior as losing their temper and hitting people.
If a child hits someone, parents must remember to be calm and rational. Never use violence against violence. Only through active guidance can children be helped to correct this bad behavior habit. If violence is used against violence, children may have anti-social personality in serious cases. In the eyes of children, the way parents do things for others is reference. Parents' handling methods will be reflected in their children. Therefore, parents must pay attention to their words and deeds and avoid passing bad habits on to their children.
Then, how should children be educated if they lose their temper easily and hit people easily? Today. Let's talk about the correct handling method.
1. If children love to lose their temper and hit people, parents must correct this overbearing behavior in time. Children have such bad behavior habits, and parents must give correct guidance. Moreover, we should promptly correct this bad habit of bullying the weak and fearing the hard. Only by eliminating the signs can we help children better.
When parents educate their children, they must let them know what they can and cannot do. If children do well, they can be praised or encouraged. However, if the child has a bad habit of hitting people, it must be corrected in time.
When the child loses his temper and hits others, parents should convince others by reasoning. Try to let children distinguish right from wrong through reasonable methods. Some parents report that children are too young to simply preach, so they simply don't understand or listen. Therefore, instead of reasoning with children, it is better to reprimand them directly.
In fact, parents and friends should understand that this kind of thing can't be urgent. Even at this time, the child can't understand and listen. However, children's growth is easily influenced by the environment.
For children, they will gradually understand that their actions are wrong in a subtle way. Parents who insist on being reasonable for a long time will also find that their children will gradually stop losing their temper and hitting people.
3, in the usual education, we must adhere to the principle, don't spoil children too much. If a child is not willful, he will not lose his temper at will, let alone hit people. As parents, we must have our own principles in educating our children. Even if you love your children, don't indulge them too much. If parents indulge their children too much, they will develop a self-centered consciousness. Once this strong sense of self is formed, it will be particularly sensitive to being denied.
If the child's request is not recognized, the first reaction must be psychological discomfort. This psychological gap will definitely make them lose their temper. If you can't meet the requirements, you may even hit someone.
This reminds our parents that we must be firm in educating children. If the child's request is unreasonable, the attitude of refusal must be firm. Usually, we should also set some rules for children: some things can be done and some things can't be done. If you can't do something, what will happen after you do it, you should also make it clear to your child.
4. It is best to let children participate in group activities more. Children with interpersonal relationships will naturally know how to restrain themselves and try to integrate into the group. If children have their own social circles and often participate in group activities, then they will learn to share and help each other. In this case, the child will not lose his temper and hit people casually. On the contrary, you will be more polite and know how to take care of others.
Parents can introduce some older friends to their children because these friends have a certain "deterrent" effect on their children. By playing with "older" children, let them know that they can't do whatever they want. Of course, when introducing friends to children, we should also examine whether the other person is a sensible and caring "big" child.
5. Educate children to be patient and give them more care at ordinary times. Children will also learn how to love others in a warm and warm family atmosphere. If there is a lot of trouble at home, it is easy for children to develop a bad temper. It is not surprising that children who grow up in this environment lose their temper and hit people. This is because they are influenced by the environment.
Therefore, parents should try their best to create a democratic and warm environment in normal family life. In one's own home, everyone is equal. If children feel that they are in a tolerant and equal family environment, they won't lose their temper and hit people.
If a child loses his temper and hits someone, the attitude and handling methods of parents are really important. Finally, remind parents that as parents, they must set a good example for their children and avoid violence with violence.