There is such a little boy. The first night, he stole money from his parents and was found out. His father gave the boy a good lesson! I thought he would correct his mistake and won't do it again! But the next night, he stole money again! In this way, the little boy was sent to the police station by his biological father.
Father took the boy into the police station. After the police on duty understood the situation, they patiently lectured the boy. The policeman told the boy: if you want something, you can tell your parents that you want it, and their parents will buy it for him! Parents who shouldn't buy it will also reason with him! The policeman asked the boy, there are so many thieves in society, would you like to be caught like them? The boy kept shaking his head in tears and obviously realized his mistake! Finally, the police told the boy that he couldn't do it again, and high-fived the boy as an oath, saying that this was a man's agreement and that he would keep his word.
In this small case, both the father's approach and the police's approach are worth learning. In the face of principled mistakes, the father will not choose tolerance again and again. The police's patient education and agreed methods for minors will definitely change the boy.
This reminds me of something that happened when I was working in a supermarket! An old woman took her granddaughter to the supermarket, paid the bill and went home. Grandma found an interesting egg in her pocket, but she didn't pay. Grandma immediately asked where it came from. In the face of grandma's serious questioning, granddaughter said timidly, I took it in the supermarket. So, grandma immediately returned to the supermarket with her granddaughter and interesting eggs. Grandma told the cashier in the supermarket what happened. She kept apologizing and asked her granddaughter to apologize. Granddaughter didn't want to apologize to the supermarket staff at first. After grandma preached many times, her granddaughter apologized to the supermarket staff in tears!
Grandma's practice has been recognized by many people around her. Everyone says that children have had this experience and will never make similar mistakes in the future.
Children may be young, may not understand? Steal? The concept of? Steal? Price! Therefore, as parents and adults, when children make principled mistakes, they should correct them in time and give correct guidance to prevent them from going astray.