Set clear goals
Set short-term and long-term goals with your child, make sure the goals are specific, measurable and challenging, and set time limits. This will help children know the direction of their efforts.
Decomposition target
Refine the big goal into small steps and let the children complete it step by step. Every time a small goal is achieved, children can have a sense of accomplishment and enhance their self-confidence and willpower.
Cultivate good habits
Educate children to develop self-disciplined living habits, such as getting up on time, finishing homework and arranging time reasonably. Self-discipline is the basis of cultivating willpower.
Encourage to face difficulties
When children encounter difficulties, encourage them to persevere and overcome challenges. Tell them that success belongs to those who dare to challenge and cultivate the quality of not being afraid of difficulties.
Moderate praise
Affirm children's efforts and progress in time, and let children feel their own value. Avoid overindulgence and cultivate children's independent spirit.
shoulder the responsibility
Let children participate in housework and study tasks and cultivate a sense of responsibility. Children with a sense of responsibility are more likely to persist in completing tasks.
Cultivate one's patience
Through games and activities, educate children to learn to wait patiently and not to be eager for quick success. This will help to improve children's patience.
Control emotion
Teach children to control their emotions and behaviors and avoid impulsiveness and willfulness. Improve children's self-control through psychological training and behavioral norms.
Set a good example
Parents should set an example, pay attention to their words and deeds, and set a good example for their children. Children's imitation ability is very strong, so the behavior of adults has an important influence on them.
Good communication
Keep in touch with children, understand their thoughts and needs, and help them solve problems. Good parent-child relationship helps to cultivate children's willpower.