1. Parents are always the first responsible person for family education.

No matter how excellent the school education is, family education is the starting point of all education. The teacher is responsible, and what the teacher can't teach is the responsibility of the parents. Your height will reach the height of your child. Your pattern will expand the pattern of children. All parents should have a firm belief in their hearts: the growth of children is my responsibility.

No matter how good a teacher is, he can't compare with his parents' words and deeds.

Education can't just rely on teachers who preach and teach. They can teach children the knowledge in textbooks, but they can't teach them the growing character. A teacher's influence on children may be only three to five years, but parents' influence on children runs through life. What kind of parents you are, you should teach your children what words and deeds, and teach your children to teach yourself. On the road of education, parents should not be absent from all educational resources.

Respect is the most basic education for children.

Education should be based on equal relations, whether teachers and students, or parents and children. At any time, the first premise of educating children is respect. Children who are not respected will never learn to respect. In society, they just sleep everywhere. Without a sound personality and a beautiful mind, knowledge will only become a tool for children to go bad. Children are equal to us. Please face up to the existence of children, understand their needs, affirm their progress and appreciate their advantages. Education needs love and respect, and respecting children means respecting yourself.

The key to Excellence lies in what parents think.

Two thousand years ago, Confucius put forward "teaching students in accordance with their aptitude". Not all children can get 100, but every child has an innate advantage. Children who love reading dream of becoming writers, children who love sports dream of becoming athletes, and children who love helping others dream of becoming teachers ..... There are no useless children, only parents who can't see the advantages. The primary task of parental education is to learn to appreciate children and explore their potential. All roads lead to Rome, and so does education. As a parent, you should be a child's bole and let the child grow up to be the best.

5. Parents decide the child's personality, and personality decides the child's fate.

The father's pattern and the mother's mood determine the future of the child. Behind a successful child, there must be a successful father who sets an excellent example and a lofty model for the child. The mother's mood will affect the child's life, and maintaining emotional peace is the greatest education for the child. The child's present is your yesterday, and now you are the child's tomorrow.

6. The best way to enrich children is to enrich their spirit.

Education can't be achieved by spending money alone. Money can't help children to establish correct three views, and material can't enrich their inner world. The highest level of enrichment should be the nourishment of the soul, the cultivation of the spiritual world and the cultivation of values. Let children have a rich heart, know how to respect and love themselves, know how to choose between high and low, know right and wrong, know how to be kind and know how to be grateful. No matter what environment he faces and what difficulties he encounters, he can be calm and calm, not easily compromise and not easily retreat. True education has nothing to do with wealth and class, but with the soul.

7. Give your child a choice, not an order.

The worst role for parents is to act as the "commander" of their children and give them orders. Children who are "manipulated" can only rely on their parents slowly, or become rebellious and push the consequences of failure to others. Every child should be unique. Learning to choose, learn to make decisions and learn to bear the consequences is the beginning of a child's growth. Many times, what parents have to do is to let go and let their children move forward boldly.

8. Children should not be subjected to any form of domestic violence.

You never know how an injury will rewrite a child's fate, whether it is the scar left by a fist slap, the scar left by an insult, or the fear caused by a cold violence. The brand left by violence on children will be a lingering shadow for life. The ultimate goal of discipline is to correct the child's behavior, not to really get married with the child. It should be a warm and beautiful paradise for growth, not a place of violence. May parents be ferrymen in their children's lives, feel with heart, tolerate with love, and let children boldly take every step of their growth.

9. Don't let your children realize your dreams for you.

There are no perfect children, let alone perfect parents. Since we are not perfect, why should we put our children on our predetermined path? It is very selfish to graft your dreams into your children's lives. Teaching children, like planting trees, lies in the process, not the result. We should work hard on the "roots" of children, instead of thinking about what flowers and fruits children should have all day.