"Word for word" means that parents teach their children what they have learned in life and work. The key to "teaching by example" is to convince people with reason. As parents, we should not only let our children know what they should do, but also let them know why.
Therefore, when communicating with children, parents can't just stand in the position of parents and criticize their children in a critical and complaining tone. Even if children make mistakes, we should tell them the truth after making it clear, and we can't always compare children with "other people's children"; In the process of educating children, we should communicate with them patiently and let them understand the purpose of parents' criticism of education.
"Teaching by example" is because children are very good at learning from their parents and elders when they grow up. Parents' words and deeds will be engraved in their hearts, which will have a great impact on their character and behavior.
A scientific view of education should have a reasonable expectation for children. In other words, parents should do what their children want to do first; If parents want their children not to do it, don't do it first; Parents will never force their children to do what they can't do; If children want to do what they want, parents should guide them rationally. Educating children is a long-term thing. Parents also need to be themselves when educating their children. If parents can't do things themselves, how can they ask their children to do them?
"Lead by example" means that parents can set an example for their children without preaching in front of their children, but from the details of life and work.