The education of children is a long-standing problem in today's society, but it was very simple decades ago. If you don't listen, you will be beaten. Be honest if you don't listen. Many people born in the seventies and eighties have the experience of being chased by their fathers.
Now, you ask your parents to give their children another beating. Light may become more and more rebellious, and heavy may make children run away from home and even jump off a building to fight.
Of course, I don't think stick education can solve all children's problems. Moreover, in this society, under the impact of some western educational ideas such as equality and freedom, coupled with the changes of the times and concepts, parents have more or less lost the traditional majesty of China in their children's minds, and they can no longer educate their children as before.
But the form of education has changed, but some essence will never change. Nowadays, parents pay more attention to their children's learning and put their achievements in the supreme position. Therefore, parents try their best to improve their children's grades, and all kinds of cram schools and interest classes are piled on their children, which makes them overwhelmed.
The older generation pays more attention to children's education. I'll never forget what my grandmother often says, that is, "from thief to needle, grow up and steal gold." In the concept of the older generation, children should play if they want, because it is their nature. The old rules that should be observed must be observed, because this is the morality and etiquette handed down from generation to generation in China culture.
Some old ideas are not outdated, but the foundation of China culture, and children should understand them at an early age. Moreover, grades are not everything, and now there are countless high scores and low abilities in society. Even if you have learned a lot of knowledge, your unhealthy attitude is also harmful to others and yourself.
The importance of children's mind is far greater than their achievements. If a person has a strong and kind heart and this tenacious and upright character, then no difficulty in the world can stop his progress.
On the issue of education, the two generations should not simply compromise with each other, but should choose the most suitable education method according to the actual situation of their children. One of the most important points is that achievement is not everything, and a healthy mind can have a future.