1. Parents should remember that when talking to their children, they should remember that it is the right thing, not the person. Things belong to the same thing. Don't make too many associations, and don't label your children "disobedient" or "disobedient" casually. After all, children are growing up, and sometimes parents' language may have a great influence on children.
Parents should also remember to choose the right time when reasoning with their children. If the other person is out of control, don't talk at this time. When both sides calm down, reasoning will be effective and children will grow up healthily.
2. You can usually see at home that when children keep talking, parents' voices will get louder and louder. After the hair and temper at home, the child also cried and lost his temper. Finally, parents pull down their faces and lower their heads to persuade their children. In fact, not only will parents and children become bad-tempered, but they will also lose the best opportunity to educate their children.
It is also possible that parents usually don't pay enough attention to their children, and children can only attract their parents' attention by disobedience.
Communication skills with children:
1, treat children equally. When communicating with children, you can avoid condescending by squatting down and keeping your eyes open.
Next, to give children a bad feeling, adults also need to respect children. ?
2. Get children's approval. Explain the facts to children in a negotiated way, instead of arbitrarily allowing or not allowing them, so that
The effect is not good. ?
3. Avoid denying children. You can give your child more choices instead of telling him not to do anything. You can tell him.
What it should be. Most people don't like being denied, so they should be more active with their children.