Teach him to care about others.
Happy children need to feel that they have some meaningful connections with others and understand what he means to others. To cultivate this feeling, you can help your child to get in touch with others more. You can sort out some old toys with your child and donate them to charity with him to help homeless children. Children can also be encouraged to participate in some volunteer activities at school. Experts point out that even at a very young age, you can get happiness from helping others. And form the habit of helping others.
2. Ensure that children eat healthily.
A healthy diet can not only make children healthy, but also make their emotions more stable. Whether it's dinner or snacks, we should try to follow healthy principles, such as low-fat, low-sugar, fresh and balanced diet.
Give up perfectionism
We all expect our children to show their best, but sometimes we are too eager to correct or improve their performance. For example, we hate that they don't clean the table, but simply clean it. Or correct them. They must put things in a certain position. Demanding perfection in everything will weaken children's self-confidence and courage not to be afraid of making mistakes. The next time you can't help but want to get involved and try to help your child do things better, think about it first: Is this related to health or safety? Imagine, after 10 years, is this matter still so serious? If not, let the children do it.
4. Give him a stage to perform
Every child has a unique talent, why not give them a chance to show it? If they like telling stories, encourage them to tell you more stories. If he is good at numbers, take him shopping and ask him to help you choose a cheaper one. When you can appreciate your child's talent and show your enthusiasm, your child will naturally be more confident. Children around us need not only a carefree living environment, but also adults to accompany them to experience its growth process.
Step 5 Laugh often
Telling jokes, making up some funny songs and laughing with children are good for you and your children. Just laughing is good exercise.
6. Creative "praise"
When children behave well, don't just say yes. Be specific, tell the details, and point out the places that are impressive or better than last time. For example, it is really polite for you to say good morning to the doorman's uncle today. However, we should also pay attention to praise and not develop children's false expectations. Some parents will reward their children with gifts or money, so that their children can focus on what rewards they can get, rather than doing well. Parents should let their children discover the satisfaction and sense of accomplishment brought by completing a thing, instead of rewarding him with material rewards.
Suggestions on the cooperation between parents and kindergartens in educating children
First, how to cooperate with kindergartens to educate children
1, we should get out of the misunderstanding of family education.
First of all, educating children is the responsibility of parents all their lives. No matter what kind of environment their children are in, they can't do without their parents' education. Therefore, parents should know that they can't put all the responsibility of educating their children on teachers, thinking that as long as there are teachers, teachers can't teach their children all the principles of being a man, common sense of life and knowledge. It's impossible. Teachers are only a part of children, and most of them still depend on their parents to teach. Therefore, parents should maintain a correct attitude when their children go to kindergarten, communicate with teachers in time, understand their children's performance and what happened at school, and solve and correct their children's bad habits in time, instead of blaming teachers for everything. Parents spend the longest time with their children, so they are most influenced by their words and deeds, so our parents should be their children's first teachers.
Secondly, on the issue of educating children, it is wrong to blindly love or criticize. Love when you love, be strict when you love, and combine scientifically.
Children's education is always the biggest problem in a family, and as parents, we often can't master this degree of love and strictness. Some parents spoil their children too much, and their children meet all their requirements. Some parents are too strict with their children, and they will scold them for a little thing. This is not the correct way of education, parents should master this degree.
Thirdly, parents should establish a correct view of education, not only focusing on knowledge, but also ignoring the development of individual behavior.
Parents should not only pay attention to the amount of knowledge their children have learned, but also pay attention to the formation of their moral character and character. Some parents only care about what their children have learned, but ignore their children's performance in school. If their children are young, they should pay more attention to forming good habits and prevent them from forming bad habits.
2. Actively cooperate with kindergarten education.
First of all, parents should always communicate with teachers. Now, most teachers build QQ groups. Mothers can often learn some information in the group, know the school's educational planning and knowledge points, so they can also supervise their children at home, clarify their learning and living standards, and cultivate good habits.
Secondly, in addition to communicating with teachers to understand their children's performance at school, parents can also communicate with teachers about their children's performance at home, which can coordinate their children's performance at school and at home. If it's good, perform it; if it's bad, correct it.
3. Actively participate in parents' activities in kindergartens and attach importance to family ties.
At present, kindergartens have an open day for parents every semester. Parents should actively participate in such activities, so that they can observe their children's performance in school and meet their psychological needs well. Teachers will have different attitudes and care for each child. Parents can also pay more attention to the teacher's attitude towards their children when they are auditing.
In addition, parents must arm themselves with theoretical knowledge of education, improve their education level and give full play to the effectiveness of family education.
In short, as long as parents adhere to the principle of paying equal attention to family education and kindergarten education and form a joint educational effort in the same direction, they can get twice the result with half the effort in cultivating children's good behavior habits.
Having said that, it is nothing more than communicating with teachers, understanding children's behaviors and habits, and cooperating with the garden to educate children. At the same time, we should also pay attention to improving our own educational methods and realize that we have an unshirkable responsibility for children's education.
Second, about the educational knowledge of kindergartens.
1, the most important thing in early childhood is not to learn knowledge.
The most important thing in early childhood is not to learn knowledge, but to cultivate the quality, attitude, emotion and ability of children who will benefit for life, which is very important. Of course, we should also master some necessary knowledge and skills, but this is not the most important task in early childhood.
2. The most appropriate way to train children is to "play".
The method of preaching is not suitable for cultivating children, and the method suitable for children's age characteristics is "game". Children can learn to discuss with others while playing games.
3. Introduce social hot issues into the classroom.
Social hot issues can be introduced into the curriculum in due course. Children will also publicize to their parents when they go home. If they see their parents littering, they will tell them that it is wrong and that the garbage should be classified. Even many parents say that the game of garbage sorting has benefited them a lot. They didn't know that garbage should be classified before. What is recyclable garbage? What is non-recyclable garbage, harmful waste?