First, it is the requirement of quality education to cultivate children's love and students' love in life. I think it is more important to cultivate students' love than to cultivate their grades. For teachers, it is not important to evaluate children's love. What is important is to find children's love in daily life, so as to enlarge and cultivate children's love. Because it is our responsibility to cultivate students' love! In fact, loving others and offering love are often just a little effort. For example, take the initiative to give seats to the elderly on the bus; In the classroom corridor, take the initiative to help the teacher with the exercise book; Take the initiative to care for students who are sick or have difficulties; Or answer strangers' questions enthusiastically and patiently on the road. When others need help, take the initiative to help others, and you will feel happy, that is, a caring person. After the Wenchuan earthquake in 2008, I held an activity in my class called "When one party is in trouble, support from all directions". One of my classmates with poor family economy donated 1 yuan, and some classmates laughed at him for donating less. I said, "Goose feather gift is more important than politeness." Donation is not a number, but a love. Our country has a population of1300 million. If one yuan per person is1300 million, it can solve many problems for the people in the disaster area! "
In daily life, teachers should seize every possible opportunity to explore materials that can be used for love education, and they should seize the opportunity to educate children. In addition, teachers can organize some activities in their daily life, such as giving care and education by personally calling and visiting sick children at home, so that students can feel the joy of helping others; There are new students transferring, please help take care of them; Help students younger than themselves; Put flower pots on the windowsill of classes and corridors, so that students can help teachers water flowers and weed, and let students gradually sprout love through natural imitation, experience the happiness brought by dedication and learn to care for others.
Second, cultivate children's love in teaching.
Classroom teaching is the main position for students to acquire knowledge and form ability, and it is also an important way to implement love education. Teachers should flexibly penetrate the education of love while imparting knowledge. Fully tap the love education factors contained in subject textbooks. For example, when teaching seven diamonds, I did this: this article is about a global drought, where rivers and wells dried up and many animals and people died of thirst. A little girl took a pitcher to find water for her dying mother. She fainted by the roadside because of thirst and fatigue. When she woke up, the pitcher was full of water. Instead of taking a sip, she rushed home to save her mother. However, on her way home, she met a dying puppy. She saved the puppy with some water and the puppy became very happy. When I got home, my mother didn't drink water, but left it to her daughter. Just as the little girl was about to drink water, a passer-by came to beg for water. The little girl gave the water to passers-by without hesitation. At this time, seven diamonds jumped out of the pitcher, and a clear and sweet water gushed out? This story is very instructive. Showed us a little girl's selfless love and broad mind. Teachers seize this opportunity to educate students to love their parents, animals and the weak. Through the study of this article, students know that even if you are penniless, as long as you have a love, you are the richest person in the world. The author lost no time in educating children about love in teaching and achieved good results.
Third, cultivate children's love in activities.
To cultivate students' love, we should always focus on the educational goal of "thinking for others" in moral education activities, cultivate students' love in different activities and use various educational channels. For example, at the beginning of the new semester, there will be new students in the class, so I will take this opportunity to cultivate students' love by using the existing class atmosphere and good relations between students. The specific way is to organize a welcome party. First of all, everyone applauds the freshmen, and then perform a cultural program. Then I can invite the freshmen to introduce themselves in front. The teacher then asked, "The freshmen are new here and are not familiar with the class and the school. Who wants to help them? " In this way, students' thoughts have been sublimated in their different answers. After class, students can take the initiative to take them around the campus, some to the teacher's office, and some to help them get to know their classmates. Someone plays games with them? In this way, a welcome activity can arouse students' love, help freshmen's thoughts and feelings, and freshmen can also feel the warmth of new groups. More importantly, they can cultivate their love from the activity. In addition, make full use of the weekly class meeting, teachers consciously choose themes that can cultivate students' love, such as "I help my mother with housework" and "I love my father".
Mom and so on, so that the education of caring for students has a purpose and moistens things silently.
Fourth, cultivate children's love in the family.
Teacher Lu Qin said, "Children's love is tender. If you care about it, it will grow up. " If you ignore it, it will wither; If you hit it, it will die. "If you want a caring child, please cultivate and care for it in family life! Family is the soil for children to grow up, and parents are their first teachers. There is close emotional connection between parents and children. Everything parents say and do will affect their children and leave a deep impression on them. Therefore, the influence of family education can not be ignored. Nowadays, parents generally pay more attention to knowledge and skills education, but ignore the cultivation of caring for young children. Some parents are afraid that their children will be bullied and give them negative guidance, such as "if he hits you, you will hit him"; Some parents lack sympathy and have a negative impact on their children; Some parents only know how to love their children, but they don't teach them how to care for and help others. These factors lead to the poor performance of most children in care. Therefore, teachers should strengthen guidance, hold regular parent-teacher conferences, invite parents to participate, do a good job in parents' propaganda, change parents' ideas, arouse parents' great attention, and make them realize that they should pay attention to their words and deeds, give their children a good influence, and give full play to the role of role models. At the same time, we should pay attention to using the little things around us to educate our children at any time, so that parents can realize that it is not enough to pay attention to knowledge education and intellectual development. We should give our children a good social education so that they can be kind, caring and considerate from an early age. This will not only benefit children for life, but also contribute to a happy family life and a good social atmosphere. In order to better communicate with and educate parents, the author encourages children to take advantage of holidays to take the initiative to care for their parents and other family members; Take the initiative to say hello to your parents, such as mother's day on March 8, know how to give your little gift to your mother, and do a good deed for your grandparents on the Double Ninth Festival. Through these activities, children can not only broaden their horizons, but also experience the happiness brought by love, indirectly improve the relationship between teachers and parents, and make them reliable allies in cultivating children's love.
In short, to cultivate children's love, we should create more opportunities for children to give love in life, teaching, activities and family, and pay attention to various factors that affect children's growth, persevere, let love sprout in children's hearts and grow sturdily, so as to lay a solid foundation for them to become caring members of society in the future.