Family education includes moral, intellectual, physical and aesthetic aspects. Virtue is basically to teach children to be human. Being a man is the foundation of being a man, and good quality is the foundation of being a man. The goal of virtue should at least let children learn to be polite, have a strong sense of responsibility and love. Ability goals should include learning ability, independent ability and communication ability. The body includes a good body and a healthy spirit. Intellectual class focuses on cultivating children's interest in learning in primary school. Only by clarifying the connotation of the minimum goal of family education can parents be targeted and always pay attention to the direction of guidance.