Parents should not be too demanding when educating their children. Parents all over the world are of one mind, hoping that their children are "dragons" and their daughters are "phoenixes", which is beyond reproach. However, some parents put forward some very high and strict requirements for their children without considering their actual situation. These requirements are beyond the tolerance of children, which will make children lose confidence and even produce boredom and rebellion. Therefore, parents should not expect too much from their children, let alone rush for success. Instead, we should proceed from the actual situation of children and ask them to study hard, gradually improve, and constantly encourage and support them. In this way, the child's rebellious mentality will gradually be eliminated.
Third, encouragement is good medicine for any child. When you find that he has made a little progress, you should encourage praise and give him confidence. He will consciously restrain his behavior and gradually change his bad habits.
Fourth, let children be parents' assistants and advisers, so that parents can consciously discuss family affairs with their children. Be sure to thank him for his good work. Even if it is not good, don't think he helped, but tell him how to do it well.
Five, for the child's things, as long as it is to do, can do, let him practice, don't interfere, don't arrange. Only in this way can children improve their sense of responsibility and self-confidence from their parents' trust and grow their talents.
As long as parents don't practice "autocracy" and make children feel that their parents can be trusted like friends and feel that they have a position in the family, they will like this family, like their parents, and are willing to tell their parents what they think and accept their help.