Children who are influenced by reading earlier enter kindergarten two and a half years earlier than other children who are not influenced by reading. However, children get more than just learning skills. Reading to children can also teach children to learn to share and participate, so that families are full of affection and children can always feel the care of their parents.
/6a 600 c 338744 ebf 83 ee B4 df 7 D2 F9 d 72 a 6 159 a75b？ X-BCE-process = image/resize, m _ lfit, w _ 450, h _ 600, limit _ 1/quality, q _ 85 The famous British dramatist Shakespeare once said, "Books are the nourishment of the whole world. If there are no books in life, it is like there is no sunshine on the earth; There is no book in wisdom, just like a bird without wings. "
However, in daily life, many children like to read books that are not beneficial to their studies. For example, all kinds of pure entertainment books full of killings or monsters, and indulge in reading without restraint, and even neglect their homework. This kind of useless book not only wastes time and money, but also does not help children's behavior and work. These bad books seriously mislead children's values.
Only useful books can really help children. Parents can choose some biographies of celebrities to learn about their deeds and learn the truth of being a man when helping their children choose extracurricular reading materials. Only by reading books with gold content can children become alert and cheerful, and can they better face the present and meet the future.
/b 999 a 90 14c 086 e 06 e 544 168309087 BF 40 BD 1 cb0e？ X-BCE-process = image/resize, m _ lfit, w _ 450, h _ 600, limit _ 1/quality, q _ 85 In order for children to read more, parents should first develop reading habits.
Some parents know that good reading habits are of great benefit to their children's study and ask them to do it. But parents themselves have never had such a habit, and they never accompany their children to study. Instead, they sit in front of the TV to kill time every day.
If parents don't have good reading habits, they will also make their children lack interest in books and have no desire and habit to read. However, once the problem of no reading habits is formed, it is difficult for children's habits to be corrected in a negative environment. Over time, children who lack reading will gradually show problems such as narrow knowledge, little information, simple way of thinking, poor language and writing skills, and difficulties in writing and communicating with others.
Forcing children to do things that their parents can't do themselves will make them feel that their parents are tolerant of themselves, but strict with them, which will lead to dissatisfaction and rebellion. This makes it more difficult to correct children's bad habits.
Tips for positive discipline
Don't assign reading as a task to children, it will make them have a burden. Try to make reading an entertaining, relaxing and enjoyable thing.
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Some parents choose books for their children according to their own preferences. He thinks children should like it, buy it for them if they find it useful, regardless of their feelings.
When parents buy books for their children, they must discuss with them to stimulate their reading interest. At the same time, it should be noted that buying books for children should be based on the premise of not increasing the burden of extracurricular study for children; Children should be taught scientific reading methods; Remind to pay attention to eye hygiene and develop good reading habits.
Educators say that children like books that suit their tastes, age and difficulty. They also need all kinds of reading materials, so when buying books for their children, they can choose all kinds of reading materials, such as newspapers, magazines, advertising brochures, poetry collections and so on. Doing so can broaden children's horizons and cultivate children's broad interests and hobbies.
Tips for positive discipline
As the writer Zhao said in his essay "Don't be a Barbarian": "I'm afraid it's not enough to have the desire to read. There is also a question of how to read it. As readers, we should not be simple recipients, but rather thinkers and participants. The process of reading is a process of appreciation and acceptance, as well as a process of thinking and feeling. It will be meaningful if you can often record your feelings about reading in your own language. Of course, the process of reading may also be a process of exclusion, because not all books are interesting. " Therefore, parents should be selective when choosing books for their children, so that books can become their children's mentors and friends.
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Some parents also understand the importance of reading for their children, but they ignore the premise of giving their children a good reading environment.
Reading is an act of seeking knowledge and a kind of enjoyment. Therefore, parents should not artificially limit and control the contents, types and scope of magazines their children read, except those that are really harmful to their children.
It is the happiest thing for children to read picture books with their parents when they are babbling. Whenever his parents read for him, he will feel kind and happy. At this time, he will feel that his parents are the closest people in the world, and their voices are the most beautiful in the world.
When reading picture books together, the changes of parents' understanding and feelings about the story are bound to be expressed through voices, which will resonate with children and stimulate their interest in reading picture books. If parents don't read books and newspapers, it is difficult to cultivate their children's interest in reading.
Tips for positive discipline
Generally speaking, since primary school, most children have gradually formed their hobbies and interests in the choice of reading content. In this regard, parents should pay attention to observation, understanding and guidance, and do not interfere too much. If you want your child to read exactly according to your plan, it is doomed to be short-lived.