1 is conducive to establishing good interpersonal relationships with others. College students need to learn a lot in college, and any social communication activities in college are inseparable from the quality of civilization, and the education of civilized quality is an indispensable and important content in the process of socialization. Because, civilization is a compulsory course in the whole life journey, and it is also the biggest difference between people and animals. College students can be called "quasi-social people". They have a strong demand for going to society, but also have some psychological confusion. A person with good civilized quality will be very confident in communication activities. When encountering various situations and difficulties in time, he can always maintain a calm and stable psychological state. He can quickly take the most reasonable action according to the information he has, save the day and strive for the initiative. On the contrary, some people who lack good civilized quality often appear incoherent, panicked and uneasy before taking part in major communication activities. Some people even have the phenomenon of rapid heartbeat, trembling limbs, abnormal tone and so on after the exchange activities begin. Then, to educate college students on civilized quality and let them master various codes of conduct that meet the social requirements is not only to meet the needs of college students to go to society and better promote their socialization, but also to cultivate their ability to adapt to social life and improve their social communication ability.
The quality of civilization itself is a special language. Let college students learn and master the basic etiquette and norms of getting along with others, and they can successfully open the door to various communication activities and establish harmonious interpersonal relationships with them. In this way, it is not only the main way to form a good social and psychological atmosphere, but also more powerful for college students to apply for exams and find jobs.
At present, there is a phenomenon in many colleges and universities: college students often learn cultural knowledge, but lack the quality of learning civilization. As a result, some college students become excellent students in cultural knowledge and poor students in civilized quality. In order to know the knowledge and civilized quality of college students in time, systematic civilized quality education for college students can enrich their knowledge, let them clearly grasp the etiquette norms that meet the requirements of socialist morality, and guide them how to restrain their behavior according to the civilized norms in real life, so as to truly achieve "sincerity in China, behavior in action, wisdom in words", organically unify the internal moral quality and external etiquette forms, and become a truly modern college student with high moral quality. Civilized quality education is the most basic content in the spiritual civilization education system. The report of the 19th National Congress of the Communist Party of China pointed out that to cultivate and practice the socialist core values, we should start from the family, start from the dolls, dig deep into the ideological concept, humanistic spirit and moral norms contained in Chinese traditional culture, inherit and innovate according to the requirements of the times, and let Chinese culture show its permanent charm and style of the times. Civilized quality education is an important part of social core values. Because politeness is the actual embodiment of human spiritual civilization. Popularizing and applying etiquette knowledge is the need to strengthen the construction of socialist spiritual civilization. Through civilized quality education, college students can clearly know that their speech, manners and appearance can reflect a person's ideological cultivation, civilization and mental outlook. However, everyone's civilization is not only related to their own image, but also affects the spiritual outlook of the whole school and even the spiritual civilization of the whole society. Strengthen the suggestion of spiritual civilization, improve the practical ability of college students to deal with rewards, develop good manners and habits, and have basic civilization education. Let the flowers of civilization bloom everywhere in our campus. If everyone stresses civilization, our society will be full of harmony and warmth. Achieve a high degree of harmony and order between people and between people and society, and strive to promote the process of spiritual civilization in the whole society.