Teaching with heart is to educate children with complete peace of mind. When children study, whether they like it or not, whether they understand it or not, they can accept some knowledge and information with a calm heart and a complete heart. You can calm down quickly at any time and under any circumstances. Accept true information and complete perception in life. It is the quietest parents who can teach them to be as quiet and transparent as glass and receive unlimited information like the universe and the sea.
Emotional education is to cultivate interest. Parents first fall in love with this learning content, educate their children to read, and children like reading. Let children learn, I like learning very much. Reading loudly and happily with children is often not the goal of children's reading, but in the process of reading, they find the feeling and feeling of getting along with their parents, especially their mothers. This feeling will be remembered forever and will emerge as soon as you read it. I am extremely happy inside.
People's feelings are the result of the binding of feelings and emotions in people's minds at that time when doing things. It is "feeling" and emotional "reception" that are tied together. People's emotions will be transmitted to children through expressions in the company, and children's feelings of doing things will be tied up with the emotions of parents and teachers, just like ringing the bell while feeding the puppy. Actually, ringing the bell and eating are two different things. Then it is bound in the puppy's mind to form a conditioned reflex. Sichuanese love spicy food, and it is the feeling of children eating spicy food that binds the happy mood of parents in Sichuan. The word "learning interest" is the happy mood when learning, and it is bound by learning feelings.
This is why Sichuanese eat Chili, Shanghainese like sweetness, and Shanxi people like vinegar. In fact, for all babies, he feels the same. The baby tasted the same spicy, sweet and sour feeling, and then was bound by his parents at home.
Although you don't like it, you should pretend to be healthy. This is a good example: friends are the assets of hundreds of millions of companies. She doesn't like reading, but when she is with her children, she still desperately holds the book and pretends to be studying. Sometimes a book is held rigidly for a long time, which makes her feel very tired. After listening to her words, I was still very moved. There is nothing she can do. The child's body is unconscious, and forming habits will also make the child unconsciously read and learn. Self-study is a habit for me. Even if I go to bed at two o'clock and don't get up to study after three o'clock, it's very uncomfortable.
The worst thing is to give children a complete learning environment. Let the environment calm down and children can relax. Quickly enter the learning state.
Worst of all, children are taught to learn in language, but emotionally they convey a bad attitude, which makes them have to study in the external consciousness, while their inner feelings are extremely uncomfortable above the subconscious. Interest can be bound to emotions, and disgusting emotions can also be precipitated for life.
It is a difficult and fatal persistence to study only in a way that children are bound to feel uncomfortable every day. If people understand these things, there is basically no big problem in educating children in the direction. Parents, especially mothers, can give their children not knowledge, not temper and rules, but mood and interest. Be a man like water and do things like mountains. Every mountain has hundreds of millions of years of persistence to last for a long time. These feelings and interests will accompany the child's life-long growth. Children can become a happy mountain without persisting all their lives.