First, respect children's free development and never limit it. On the Internet, Huang Lei's daughter Huang Duoduo, as a minor, dyed her hair and got her ears pierced, which is controversial. In the traditional concept of parents in China, as a minor, one should focus on learning, not pursuing too much, being beautiful and fashionable. But Huang Lei does have the opposite view on this point. He thinks that as a child, especially a girl, I should respect this beauty-loving nature, not restrain its development. Respect children's choices, not blindly oppose them. This is what a good father should do.
Second, as a father, he will spend more time with his children. Huang Lei is different from the traditional parents in China. More often, he can take on the role of father and accompany his children to grow up. In our traditional concept, father is a silent person and a pillar of the family. However, in the new era, as a father, we should also assume the responsibility of educating children and accompanying their growth. Children's childhood life is indispensable to their father's company, and he can make them feel responsible and responsible.
Third, communicate with children when encountering problems. When Huang Lei is in conflict with his children, as a parent, he never suppresses them blindly, but communicates with them calmly. Communication is the best way to solve problems, and it is also the best way to understand children's innermost thoughts. So as to respect the child's thoughts, respect his right to express and treat it as an adult.