Firm attitude
When children are found to be willful and lose their temper, even in crowded places, they cannot easily compromise. Because compromise may lead to more similar behaviors. If you are sure that the child is just playing a small temper, even when he is crying, you should firmly take him home for education.
Quiet environment
Find a quiet room, reduce onlookers (especially grandparents), and observe children's emotions quietly. Don't react even if the child secretly looks at you. Wait until he calms down before communicating.
Treatment of self-harm behavior
If the child has self-harm behavior, such as hitting a wall or dropping something, please stay calm as long as you are sure that it will not cause harm. Compromise at this time will only encourage him to take more extreme actions.
The importance of communication
Communicating with children is the key to building a deep relationship. To truly understand children's inner world, we need to communicate with them frequently. Through communication, we can understand children's real thoughts and needs, so as to provide them with psychological counseling and correct guidance.
Comprehensive observation
See what it is, see what it is, and see what it is safe for. "This old saying reminds us that we should comprehensively observe children's behaviors and emotions. Through observation, we can better understand the inner world of children and guide them better.
Communication skills
In the process of communication, it is suggested to follow the ratio of 3: 1, that is, to meet the demand once after three times of communication, so that children will understand the value and effect of communication. For example, when a child wants a toy, if he already has a similar toy at home, he can be asked why he wants this special toy.