1. Suppress education. Repressive education will often suppress and deny children again and again, which will lead to children's inferiority, lack of self-confidence, timidity and lack of opinions. In severe cases, it will also affect the parent-child relationship and form a parent-child gap.
2. Parents' self-styled education. Many parents always show a condescending momentum when facing their children. Parents and children are equal in personality. If parents always pretend to be parents, even if parents' criticisms are sometimes 100% correct, children will be "verbally dissatisfied".
3. Praise over-education. This kind of education is not equal to appreciation education. Too much unnecessary praise will only make children complacent. Moreover, after listening to the exaggerated praise of parents, you may only listen to good words and not listen to negative opinions after entering the society, and your life is easy to be frustrated.
4. Restricted education. The world in children's eyes cannot be the same as that in parents' eyes. Too many parents' restrictions will make children feel bound, which is the most disgusting thing for children.
5. Overriding education. Nowadays, many parents don't let their children do anything and have the right to make their own decisions. The reason is to be afraid that the child will fail in the exam or avoid the sadness after the child encounters setbacks. But for children, how to grasp the future without experiencing failure?
6. Indulge in education. Children fight outside, parents say, play well, don't bully, this is like my child! Or parents turn a blind eye to all the willfulness of their children. This kind of connivance education is extremely harmful. It will make children arrogant and unreasonable.
7. ambiguous education. The child lied, and the parents said that the lie was made up to chase the director. Is this positive or negative? Children are hard to judge. This kind of education will make children lack judgment on things or things.
8. Oral education. This kind of education is not an example at all, but a word of mouth. Children are not allowed to play with mobile phones, and parents play by themselves. This kind of education is difficult to convince children. Therefore, setting a good example for children can play an exemplary role.
9. Completely negative education. When criticizing children, some parents often make the mistake of criticizing too much, such as "You always lie" and "You are nothing like my son." And so on, these words will certainly arouse children's disgust, which will lead to refusal to accept criticism and education, and even produce rebellious psychology.
10. "Deceiving corpse" punishment education. I don't communicate well with children at ordinary times. Once my child makes a mistake, he will fly into a rage, from scolding to corporal punishment. This kind of education. Either it will lead to children's cowardice, or it will make children rebel.