The horror of this movie is that it is based on real events in Korean reality, just like Melting Pot and Su Yuan.
The only difference is that both Melting Pot and Su Yuan are sexual crimes committed by adults against children, while Mommy Don't Cry is a crime committed by a group of minors. The crimes committed by children's ignorance are sometimes more terrible than those committed by adults.
At the beginning of the film, there is an elegant woman and a man in a suit and tie standing at the gate of the court, who just finished the divorce procedure.
Then the woman went to school to take her daughter home.
On the bus, the woman asked her beautiful daughter: What's it like to just go to high school?
The daughter asked her mother: What's the feeling of divorce?
Mother and daughter are as close as a pair of good sisters who talk about everything.
A mother does not interfere with her daughter's feelings and growth. This generous, harmonious and relaxed education could have made her daughter grow up better.
The mother is content to be a good sister with her daughter, ignoring the education and guidance of parents.
Although my daughter went to high school and was at the end of adolescence, she had strong self-awareness and thoughts, but she was still young.
Her social experience and life experience are very limited, and there is still a long way to go to distinguish between danger and right and wrong.
The mother in the film respects her daughter very much, lacks vigilance to lead her to danger, and forgets to restrain her daughter properly. Therefore, when her daughter doesn't come home on time after school and has other appointments, the mother doesn't know where she is, who she is with and what she is doing.
My daughter met a cold and silent boy in her class at school and had a good impression on him. A friend next to her reminded her that this male student is not a good student, but her daughter is new here and doesn't know much about this taciturn boy like her father. She simply thinks that she just doesn't like studying.
When the woman came to pick up her daughter again, she saw a male classmate coming out with her daughter to help her carry the cello. Her mother greeted him kindly, and then she saw the male classmate with several unhealthy teenagers, and his hair and clothes were exaggerated.
Mother was a little uneasy. As soon as she turned the steering wheel in her hand, the car was far away from these bad teenagers, but she didn't remind her daughter.
The daughter said that the underwear became smaller and the chest became longer, so the mother attacked the chest and played with her daughter like a best friend. She didn't mention the topic of protecting herself.
Mother and daughter put on masks together and talked about boudoir. When the mother asks the person her daughter likes, she reminds her daughter not to entrust her life to others like her mother.
Mom talked about the topic here, but it was only a point, and there was not much education about sexual safety.
Mother-daughter relationship can talk openly about sex and do enough sex education homework for her daughter, but unfortunately mother doesn't.
The mother only advised her daughter based on her own experience. She didn't consider that there are many possibilities of losing her virginity besides being willing to be cheated into bed: sexual coercion, rape and other sexual crimes.
Mother made chocolate with her daughter and her daughter's good friend. The daughter made chocolate and took it to school for the teenager to give him a gift. As a result, the teenager asked his daughter to go to the rooftop of the school teaching building, and several bad teenagers her mother saw at that time gang raped her.
When my daughter called her mother for help, her mother was invited to KTV by the swimming coach and didn't hear the call.
The mother who came home didn't see her daughter and mistakenly thought that her daughter had gone to bed early. (There are many careless mothers in life, such as leaving their children in the middle of the highway and driving home by themselves ...) Finally, she was informed by the police to rush to the hospital to learn the fact that her daughter was sexually assaulted.
My mother still doesn't handle it well at this time. After the doctor told her that there was nothing serious, if she could guide the child positively, give her more spiritual support and tell her daughter that it was okay instead of crying, her daughter's sense of shame might not be so strong.
So that when her daughter was threatened by the video, she was so ashamed that she didn't want the video to be seen by her mother. She didn't tell her mother or call the police. She went to ask for the video alone and was raped again.
After the first rape, several teenagers were hardly punished by law, because the state could not punish them severely for the protection of minors.
The girl who was victimized in court trembled as if she were on trial, but the juvenile who committed the crime was as arrogant as a judge. In real life, there are not a few hateful teenagers in movies. They are just a group of people who commit sexual violence, commit crimes and kill people through improper education. )
The video claimed that she was raped again and her daughter was humiliated. She cut off her hair with the knife she took with her when she went out, and finally committed suicide in the bathroom.
I opened my daughter's mobile phone and saw a video of her being threatened with blackmail. My mother collapsed when I saw my daughter being raped again and forced to play the piano naked. She was filled with anger and despair, and then she began to take revenge and killed them herself.
Many message barrage kept calling her daughter stupid, calling the police directly in case of blackmail, and some even called her daughter not to love herself, because it was her first date with a boy that led to the rape tragedy.
The audience is like a group of gods standing in the position of trial perspective, only knowing what to do with the people in the game and all kinds of angry abuse.
Imagine that adolescent girls want to be close to the boys they like and simply want to send a gift to express their love. This is a necessary state in normal growth, in fact, it is called not self-love.
The problem is not that girls should not take the initiative to ask out boys, but that no one teaches inexperienced children how to protect themselves.
None of us can do better than her.
We are not wary of beautiful things and think they have beautiful characteristics. It is human nature that our vigilance will be relaxed when we see the people we like and look good.
It's definitely not possible to blame this on children.
What we should do is not to insult children's mindlessness, stupidity and low IQ, nor to prohibit them from sowing the seeds of love, but to remind them:
Boys and girls born in secret, beautiful things are not necessarily really beautiful. Don't be fooled by appearances, let your guard down. No matter who you face, you need to have a sense of self-protection.
For example, don't meet unfamiliar friends alone, and don't agree to go to remote and sparsely populated places, such as rooftops, neglected and forgotten places.
When my daughter was threatened by video in the film, those who called her stupid and deserved it might have overlooked it. If we were in real life, what would be the solution we could think of?
Call the police directly? Will strong self-esteem and shame lead us to make the choice of calling the police?
If that's the case, why do so many raped girls in their lives choose to swallow their anger?
Just tell mom? Although the mother-daughter relationship is more like girlfriends, we can discuss sexual and physical topics, but are you willing to let your girlfriends watch their own private videos? What's more, it's a shame video of being raped!
Tell your mother about it. In a family that has never had sex education, how many people have the courage to see such a shameful video?
Even children who have received sex education may not have the courage to encounter such a thing.
So the girl took the knife and tried to break the larger foe, asking them for the video. Even if the child has a knife in his hand, how can he get it!
As for the end, my mother killed someone in a rage, which was a despair that the judiciary could not handle minors, and also a despair that I had lost hope of life. Even if I die, at least they will pay a heavy price.
If we are not the parties, it is easy for us to analyze things from a rational point of view, because we are divorced from the emotional feelings of unfortunate events and lack understanding of being in misfortune, so we will call them stupid and deserve it from the standpoint of superiority.
If it were us, who would do it better?
Will there be any reason for us to let criminals who repeatedly rape children and cause them to commit suicide accept legal sanctions? Moreover, laws protecting minors can't make criminals get the punishment they deserve. Which mother will continue to have any illusions about such a law?
The film is based on real events. I hope we can learn from movies, learn to give children better education and sex education, and become their life guides.