? Chen Meiling's 50 Principles of Education:
1, Declaration on "Educating Mothers"
The couple decide the education policy together.
3. Parents bear all educational responsibilities.
4. Give infinite love
5. Give priority to children.
6, to not scold, with appropriate praise to raise.
7. Never use corporal punishment.
8. Parents are guardians of children, not just friends.
Education goal: let children become good people.
9. Cultivate children with dreams and ambitions.
10, cultivate children's self-esteem.
1 1. Cultivate broad-minded children
12, cultivate children who can develop their talents.
13. Cultivate children who can "forget me"
14. Cultivate grateful children
15. Cultivate children who are not dominated by money
16. Cultivate children who have the courage to highlight themselves.
17. Cultivate children who are not afraid of failure
18. Cultivate children who choose the most difficult road
19. Cultivate grateful children.
Sixteen educational methods to help children improve their learning ability
20, psychological ability
2 1, reading ability
22. Focus (attention)
23. imagine
24. The ability to understand the world
25, the ability to absorb knowledge
26, fitness, heart-building ability
Step 27 judge
28. Ability to ask questions
29. Ability to listen and express opinions
30, attention ability
3 1, the ability to appreciate humor
32. Self-control ability
33. Improvisation ability
34, questioning ability
Nine educational methods for children to get good grades
35. Let children understand the purpose of going to school.
Ambiguous learning methods are the most painful.
37. Primary schools do homework with children.
38. Encourage children to develop their strengths and weaknesses.
39, the method of getting good grades
40. Let children fall in love with study and exams.
4 1, you must learn English.
42. Music, art and sports make children a comprehensive and more fulfilling person.
43. Teach children to master the online world.
How to communicate with adolescent children
44. Let children know the composition of hormones.
45. Help children build a sense of identity.
46. Teach children not to discriminate.
47. Love is the only way to grow.
48. Discuss with your child the philosophical problems that plague him.
49. Don't let the persistent opinions between parents and children continue.
The road to Stanford University
50. Don't give up because the tuition is expensive.
? The story of Chen Meiling.
In 1980s, Chen Meiling got married and had children, and his work focus shifted to Hongkong and Japan. Just when everyone thought she was going to be a first-class singer, Chen Meiling left Hong Kong to study at the University of Toronto? Child psychology? Later, he received a doctorate in education from Stanford University. Meanwhile, Chen Meiling gave birth to three sons, all of whom were admitted to Stanford University. Recently, it was reported that Chief Executive-designate Carrie Lam Cheng Yuet-ngor recommended Chen Meiling as the Director of Education Bureau.
Once upon a time, Chen Meiling lived a very busy life as a singer. She has to work 20 hours a day, so she often has no time to go to school, or she has to go to the TV station to record after class. At noon, she will take photos, shoot advertisements, record songs and often go on tour. My head is empty, and I have no other thoughts except to sleep for a while. Father went to Japan to see her, and when he saw her surrounded by everyone, he told her that money and fame were like running water. If anything happens, it will be taken away. But knowledge won't. Once printed in the brain, it's always there. You should continue to study. ? Chen Meiling felt that what his father said was reasonable, so he resigned and went to Canada to study. I studied child psychology, studied hard and got a degree.
At the age of 30, Chen Meiling got married and had her first child. The best time for children's development is the first three years. Chen Meiling didn't want to miss this important moment of children's growth, but she didn't give up her job, so she took her son with her every time.
This caused great controversy in Japanese society at that time, and even a word came into being? Did Agnes have a fight? (Chen Meiling's English name is Agnes) 1987, Chen Meiling, who just gave birth to her eldest son, took the baby to the TV recording scene and was reported by the media. Whether it was correct or not caused controversy in various media. Because the Japanese people at that time had never seen a woman who took her children to work together, most people thought that if you love your work, you should not have children; If you have children, don't appear as an artist in society.
The controversy was so great that Chen Meiling appeared in Time magazine and became the focus of society.
A professor at Stanford University in the United States saw Time magazine and wrote a letter to Chen Meiling, inviting her to continue studying in the United States. Chen Meiling thinks this is a good suggestion. She gave up her job, took the GRE exam, applied to a school and was admitted to Stanford University. She took her eldest son, stayed in America for two months, and gave birth to her second son. Her husband is separated from her and will only go to America to take care of her when she is on vacation.
So Chen Meiling took care of two children while studying for a year as a doctor. Everyone thought it was incredible, but Chen Meiling said? Efforts are affirmative, but what do you say? Ah, I don't want to live like this anymore! ? This idea is not a time. ? She thinks there is no conflict between going to school for further study and taking care of children. In fact, there are many students who are mothers in Stanford, and the school has a mother's nursery class in the student society. Some friends in college also helped her a lot when she was in trouble. For Chen Meiling, all the sufferings are not the hardships after the past, but a rare experience. In short, that time was bitter and full, and she was very satisfied.
In 20 15, Chen Meiling's youngest son entered Stanford university. In this way, there are four Stanford students in Chen Meiling's family. Because too many people asked her how she did it, Chen Meiling was constantly asked such questions when she was on TV, singing and being interviewed, and she also tried to write a book about her methods of educating children to let more people know.
Recently, when she came to Beijing to promote her "50 Laws of Education: I sent my three sons to Stanford", the youngest son who appeared on the cover with her also came to the scene because he was an exchange student at Stanford University in Beijing. Beside her tall and handsome son, petite Chen Meiling has a sweet and elegant smile. Born in 1955, she doesn't seem to have left many traces of time. She still looks very young. The way I stay young is probably to have these three children. ? She said with a smile.
With three excellent sons, work, study and family are not delayed. Chen Meiling is the winner in life. In the book, she shows how to determine the educational policy between husband and wife, whether to scold children, and how to praise children; What kind of abilities children need to grow up, and so on. How can you accompany your child through adolescence when you are young enough to go to an international school, and how can you cultivate your child's ability to love when you praise him, but tell him when his handwriting is not good? Isn't it beautiful? So that children can't evaluate themselves correctly; Keep encouraging until you reach that standard; Under no circumstances can corporal punishment be carried out, which is a poor way of education; What are the basic rules at home? No lies? ; The child is cooking when asking questions, and then continue after turning off the fire and answering questions; It's not true? If you do, you are a good boy? , but? If you work hard, you are a good boy? The value of a child will not change because of what he can and cannot do.