Children experts believe that "it is an important job for parents to make rules". For example, if a mother wants to remove dangerous goods for her baby in a few months, you need to help him figure out what is "yes" and what is "no", and teach him how to abide by the rules and how to deal with setbacks. It's too early to make rules for babies. The mother should start when the baby is 4 months old.
1.4 months later began to say "no".
At the age of 4 months, the baby can already grasp things with his hands or climb around. The baby's physical activities are flexible and his expression is richer. Smart parents have established a tacit understanding with their baby, and they know what the baby wants next with one action and one expression. At this time, the baby's needs gradually become a requirement for you. He wants to catch the ball. If you don't give it to him, you will give it to you in tears. He learned to express his needs in various ways.
2.8 months to correct the wrong behavior.
Eight-month-old babies have more flexible hands and feet and a wider range of activities. Curious babies are always exploring this interesting world. In this process, the baby also began to have some wrong behaviors, such as putting things on the ground in his mouth, throwing toys and so on. Parents should always pay attention to the baby to avoid danger, and at the same time, they should start to pay attention to the baby's wrong behavior and correct it in time to prevent the baby from developing bad behavior habits.
Can't speak, can't express, can only understand part of the language, these are obstacles for the baby to learn the rules. Therefore, if parents want to correct their baby's behavior, they must use actions to make their baby feel "how to do it". For example, if the baby picks up something on the ground and puts it in his mouth, the mother should stop it immediately, take something from the baby's hand, tell the baby to "throw it in the trash can" and then put it in the bucket in front of the baby.
Every day, the mother repeats the action of "bending down-picking up-throwing into the trash can" in front of the baby, or grabs the baby's hand to do this action, and the baby gradually understands what the mother means, and even learns to pick it up and throw it into the trash can like the mother.
Try to help him build a sense of security for about 3.9 months.
About 9 months, the baby's separation anxiety begins to appear, and you will find that when you walk away from his crib, the baby will cry. At this time, most mothers may turn around and hug the baby, but this practice is easy to make the baby feel that as long as the mother cries, she will come and hug immediately. So try not to come back and comfort him with a voice: "Mom is washing clothes, it doesn't matter if the baby is well." Once the baby gets used to it, it will help him build a sense of security and self-confidence.