To tell the truth, I don't quite agree with this kind of education. I think this kind of education has both advantages and disadvantages. Sticks are a bottom line for parents of children. When a child touches this bottom line, he should not be beaten with a stick, but should be punished accordingly, but the punishment should not be too severe. Accordingly, they should be praised and rewarded for doing good deeds. Many parents are eager for the success of this stick education. Of course, they think that only by oppressing the child in this way can the child grow up faster and be sensible, and only by comparing with her peers can she know what to do and what not to do. But if they can't master this degree, such behavior will become a kind of pressure in front of children: why do parents do this? Doesn't he like me? Emotions such as inferiority, violence and irritability will also follow. Under such emotions, children's mental health will have corresponding problems. Therefore, the most important way of stick education is to let children understand the truth, not to scold.
Maybe it was taught with a stick? Reverse? Instead of. Filial son? . A father punched his son because he was not motivated, and his academic performance and behavior habits were not good. Beating and cursing were so common that he even hit him with a belt and a stick. He heard that his son was stealing, so he handcuffed his son behind a chair and then pricked his son's hand with a needle. The father pinned his hope of changing the living environment on his children, but the children didn't study hard enough, which broke his heart. He decided that there was a dutiful son under the stick, so he was rude to his son. Later, it became a habit to beat and scold children. Finally, with the help of others, the son took his father to court. Because the father's simple and rude behavior caused great fear to his son's heart, the family did not give him warmth and care. As a result, my son became more and more unwilling to go home, so he made friends with some unhealthy young people in society. Instigated by these bad youths, his bad behaviors are increasing. This is the inadvisability of stick education.
I think stick education is not really a stick, but a punishment and law under the stick. It is very important to educate children with love and patience. Children should be praised and encouraged to help them adapt to nature, grow up and face the society bravely, and stick education is to control children, not to do anything out of line, not to do things that are not allowed by law, to establish the dignity of parents, and to educate children what to do and what not to do.