Children have to go through three rebellious periods. The first one appeared when they were two or three years old. Because children's small performances are not strong enough, they are often easily ignored by parents. The rebellious period of nine years old comes a little early, usually around the age of ten to eleven. If you want to educate rebellious children, you need to start with understanding their personality and build a bridge of communication, so that you can smoothly transition to the most dangerous rebellious period of adolescence. Suggestion: 1, parents should learn to respect their children's opinions. We should not only express our dissatisfaction with children's stubborn and willful behavior, but also give them the opportunity to express and explain, so that they can clearly explain the reasons for insisting on this matter, so as to avoid parents blaming their children wrongly. 2. The requirements for rebellious children should be reasonable. For children who don't listen to advice and are too willful, they should learn to use kindness and kindness. For example, when crying, parents can quietly observe and ignore it. Children will give up this expression after a long time when they see that they have not paid attention to it. When the child loses his temper and makes trouble unreasonably, he should be given a reasonable cold treatment. 3. Trust rebellious children, satisfy their curiosity and reasonable demands, and set an example. Children should be polite and gentle, and parents must do it. If parents are bad-tempered, no amount of truth is convincing to children, because with such a bad example, all truth is pale and powerless. Therefore, for the sake of children's future and children's good character, parents are advised to change themselves and put away their rude education methods of persuading others!