Good education means that children grow up to be gentlemen, and the purpose of education is to cultivate gentlemen. A gentleman must be "a man of virtue, utility and ability" and have four qualities: "virtue, wisdom, courtesy and learning". "What a gentleman needs is career knowledge, manners consistent with his identity, and at the same time, he should be able to make himself a famous figure in China according to his own identity, which is beneficial to the country." All these reflected the requirements of the British aristocratic bourgeois rulers for their children at that time, requiring them to have moral thoughts and behaviors that were understood and demanded by the upper class; Have extensive ability to explore the cause of capitalism, agility and self-confidence; Good at communicating with people, and have noble and civilized manners and manners in various social occasions; And it has the characteristics of wide knowledge and resourcefulness. Therefore, to cultivate a gentleman is to cultivate bourgeois entrepreneurs who can meet the needs of a happy life and promote the development of capitalism. It can be said that the theory of "gentleman education" is specially used to train a new generation of rulers.
In the way of gentleman education, Locke insists that the cultivation of gentleman can never be carried out through school education, but only through good family education. Children must be brought up by their fathers or good tutors. He believes that "rudeness and evil are popular everywhere" in society, and young people will be "infected" and lose "purity" when they go to school. In addition, Locke also believes that grammar schools at that time only taught some knowledge of Greek and Latin, but did not pay attention to the cultivation of students' morality, etiquette and modesty, so it was not practical. Moreover, the family habits of many students in the school and their parents' personalities are also very complicated and uneven. The young gentlemen here "associate with urchins every day and do everything they can to fight counterfeiting", so they drift with the tide and can't develop good ideology and morality. On the other hand, Locke also opposes young people's frequent contact with "uncultured and immoral" "inferior servants" to avoid learning vulgar "words, tricks and bad habits" from them. Therefore, Locke strongly advocates that all families who have the ability to hire tutors should pay a large price to hire people with good character, rich social practice experience and good cultural quality as tutors in order to achieve good educational results. "Compared with anyone in the school, a tutor is bound to make his son elegant and resolute, and at the same time know what is valuable and appropriate, and it is easier to learn and mature faster. In a word, you can't learn much about the qualities that a young gentleman should have in school.