1, listen more and respect children's privacy. If the children reach the rebellious period, parents should feel honored and often communicate with them to discuss problems. Give more understanding and respect to children's sensitive topics, protect the conversation environment and protect children's "little secrets".
2. empathy. Understand and respect the child's ideas and think about this problem from his point of view. Sometimes the child may be right, but if the idea is wrong, communicate with the child with an equal attitude and don't force it. The more you press it, the more it bounces.
Parents should set an example for their children. Parents must be strict with themselves in their daily lives, set up a good image in their children's minds, make them feel that their parents are the best, and be proud of having such parents. This has laid a good foundation for the normal communication between parents and children.
4. refuse to be embarrassed. Parents should not be too wordy, they will quarrel easily if they talk too much. If a child insists on doing something wrong, let him try and obey him. If he is angry with you, he may not do it. If not, let him suffer a little and remember it for a long time.
5. Relax your mind. The growth of children is a slow process. Everyone should accept this view, relax and lower their requirements. We will find that children are actually very cute. Children's rebellion needs life to teach them to grow up.
6. Don't scold children. Don't criticize and abuse children, and don't forcibly suppress them. You should pay more attention to life, communicate calmly, let him speak his mind, and parents guide him purposefully.